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Need to clear something up. I recently posted photos of Alfie only to be accused of stealing them from some-one else on another forum. Did the person making the accusation not think that Diane Boden on here and D,K.B on another forum could be one and the same person, as is the case here. I dont use the same user name on here as other forums I'm on, as I'm sure others dont either. I mustr admit to being a little upset at such an accussation, even though I know it was a geniuine mistake, I feel it could of been worded differently as an enquiry rather than an accussation. I would never 'steal' pictures of anyone elses dogs. I can assure you Alfie is mine and mine alone. |
I can appreciate you being upset and I would probably be as well. On the other hand, someone was looking closely enough to notice and was probably trying to do a good thing. :) I have different user names on several forums also and can understand how this might cause some confusion. |
I am glad to hear that he is yours and wondered why anyone would pass off pictures of a dog that is not theirs as their own! Doesn't make sense to me! Hope you have a good day and are enjoying alfie! |
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At first I was a little amused and pleased to find some-one from the other forum was also on here, but then I thought they could of atleast wordes it as an enquiry not an accussation, thats when I got annoyed as I would hate to think people on here would think of me as anything but honest. A simple comparrison between post on here and there should of helped them realise the similarity. I know its easy on sites to make mistakes with wording etc, just wanted my Y.T friends to know the truth. |
OMG, just finished all the things this person has accussed me off on that thread, not only theft of some-one elses photos but breeding cross breed pups but critasising others for doing it and having different accounts in different names on the site. What have I done to this person to make them write so many lies about me. It is so easy to accuse people of things as u're annonymous. I only own two dogs, both yorkies and for the record both are FIXED. So how the hack am I breeding crosses, unless I have a dirrect line to the big guy and can make arrangments for neutured dogs to produce babies. Yes I did breed litters in the past, but only pure yorkies as I used to show. I am now seriously thinking of reporting this person to admin, any advice on how to do this please. This is not just a case of a simple mistake, but dirrect slander. |
Oh wow! I'm...sorry? :confused: I don't even know what to say in this situation. Hopefully it has all been some sort of misunderstanding and you are able to sort things out. Good luck! |
So sorry this has happened to you Diane. Just hit either, Report this post (s) or Admin. at the bottom of your screen. A person who is maliciously posting can either be suspended or banned or whatever the Mods deem appropriate. |
Diane- I wrote this on the initial thread that was written but I'm going to rewrite it here! I'm so sorry if any of my "questions (ie. Wow! Why would someone do that and pass a dog off that isn't theirs, ick) and or comments were offensive to you! Someone gave me "proof" and I should have waited and watched for your comments before writing anything at all period! I apologize and hope that you will forgive my newbie mistake! Proof or not someone deserves the chance to defend themselves! Having been recently crucified myself with no proof I know what that feels like and don't ever Want to be associated with jumping on a negative bandwagon! Alfie is beautiful and you should be proud that he is yours! Again I apologize and hope you will forgive my mistake! Have a great evening! |
I saw that other thread. You should ask admin or mods to remove that members post on that thread. Im so sorry she posted that with out finding out the facts. she should of Pm'ed you privately and asked or told admin to check it out. some times people post things before finding out the facts. again im sorry and your Alfie is adorable. |
Diane...I had to look back to the other thread to see what you were talking about. It must be comforting to know there's someone out there who knows you better than you know yourself. It could come in handy, too. Just think....next time you misplace your keys you can just call 'that other person' up and she'll tell you where they are! :p Come to think of it...I could use someone like that. It sure would help when those 'senior moments' come calling. Do you happen to know if she does the 'parallel self' service in the U.S. or only work in the U.K.? |
A place of comfort? With all the sorrow going on outside these walls, I feel that my Yorkies are a source of certain comfort. Getting info, advice and comfort from fellow Yorkie lovers should be a given. We need to think twice, and breathe slowly prior to hurting a fellow member in any way. Our Yorkies are loving and generous creatures, forgiving us beyond measure. We could learn much by following in their tiny steps. I realize that this is why I mourn so intensly, the loss of my majestic Mckennitt and his brave and protective brother Jack. They happily and continually saw the best in me and those around them. Remember the power in the words you choose, and how you choose to say them. :love: |
Faerie54 that was really well said! I plan on fully following those words of wisdom and appreciate you writing that for all of us to read! Words can deeply hurt and offend and while this is a public forum (as I have been amply told a bazillion times) sometimes we freely write what we would never dare say to a human being's face! Thanks for taking the time to remind us that we have the priviledge of receiving unconditional love, support, forgiveness and the benefit of the doubt in our precious furfriends! The very least we can do is treat eachother with the same kindness! |
Mary, I have seen your appology on the other thread and thankyou for it. The person responsible has Pm'd me to appologise and I hope it has all now been sorted on here and on the other forum. They have yet to publically appologise but did pm several people on PL and they too have explained their silly mistake. I love comming on yorkie talk to share stories and pictures so do not intend to let it spoil things for me. Once again let me thankyou all for your support and listening to my side. |
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