janetcerdas | 03-11-2010 03:43 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by Jeri Cunningham
(Post 3036301)
Maybe not never everyone but over 60% of the time someone says something offensive. I have seen it over and over again and even got caught up in it before. It will NOT help to preach to someone looking for help or answers. They will leave YT forever and that is that. I don't come on often anymore just because of threads like this and if you search you can find plenty just like it.
If someone takes offence to that they need to look in the mirror and ask if they are perfect and know EVERYTHING and if they do then they would be kinder. Maybe everyone should sit back and think before addressing issues if it does make them angry.
I stand by what I said 100%. | I disagree with you. I don't think anyone on this thread is trying to offend the OP just to be mean. She's received plenty of advice on SEVERAL different forums, she's chosen to ignore it. THAT'S why people are giving their opinions on the situation.
The reason people aren't saying "Congratulations on your new puppy" or being as nice as you've suggested they be is because of the existing circumstances that many of people that have posted on here know about by now, through the OP's other threads.
No one is being offensive they're simply being frank. I've looked at her different posts on other forums and even after people advised her against getting the 6 week old puppy she posted about how she didn't want a yorkie that would be over 5 lbs. That doesn't seem like someone who has the puppy's best interest at heart, it seems like someone who's looking for a new fashion accessory. If she really did agree to take the puppy off of the breeder's hands to give it a better life she wouldn't be worrying about the puppy staying small to begin with !
You can't really expect anyone to overlook the fact that she's never owned a dog before yet she seems to think that she can take care of a 6 week old puppy by buying him a cute shirt, sticking him by a window for 9 hours a day and leaving a radio on. If the OP decides to leave yorkie talk because of advice that she didn't like then that's her problem !
I feel very bad for that puppy :( |