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Originally Posted by greenlove
(Post 2994745)
I feel like a TERRIBLE person. I love yorkies, I really do. I absolutely love both of my boys. I wanted only one yorkie but when I saw both sitting in the pet store (been there a whole week). It tore my heart out. I had to get both because I couldn't imagine the other one all alone. I really shouldn't have done that though.
I am struggling to train them. They don't want to play with me or be groomed or work on training. They just want to play and fight with each other. Romeo is very calm (he has a bad knee) and wants to do training (he is housetrained, good at grooming and is quickly learning how to sit, stay, etc). Marley is more baby-ish and wants to play, play, play. He is pretty good about housetraining (not 100% yet) but HATES grooming and he just never is calm. The kids adore him because of his playfullness, but it is overwhelming me.
I am home almost all day because I go to school and take mostly online classes. I have two young daughters (5 and 8) as well. My youngest has Aspergers and can be a handful. We just pulled her out of preschool on Friday due to some major issues. So, now I have to homeschool her and it will take more energy. I feel between school, kids and my business, I am running low on energy. I need a calm, down-to-earth dog that fits my personality better.
My husband and I decided that we need to re-home little Marley (the tiniest of the two) because he is more active and he doesn't have any health problems like his brother. It is so hard for me and I feel terrible. Now, I am trying to figure out how to find a good home for him and that is super tough too. I should have followed my original plan and only get one.
I just had to get that out. I feel so guilty but I also know my limits. I am crossing my fingers that I find a good home for him (I just have him listed on our local kijiji site). |
I'm an 'empty nester' and find my Yorkie to be the MOST ACTIVE dog I've ever owned. She constantly wants my attention to a point where at times I'm exhausted. I don't have three children anymore (one, btw, was diagnosed with Asperger's at the age of 17, after years of being diagnosed with ADD) This was waaaaay back when there was no diagnosis of Asperger's! For years I lived with a high energy little boy, however we owned different types of dogs.
I've also taken online classes and know they can be more demanding than attending classes in the classroom.
I know you're feeling really bad right now, but in my humble opinion, and keep in mind I don't know you or your family, I personally would not keep either dog. The sick one will end up costing you a small fortune (sorry to all the Yorkie lovers out there)...but they are so young, perhaps you can find a
Yorkie rescue that will
take the two of them and place them together in a home that is perhaps quieter. You have to be willing to give up the money you paid for these dogs and just call it a loss. You may even have to pay a rescue to take the two dogs, (I don't know) but these are living beings and need a good, loving home that perhaps a person that knows Yorkies can provide for BOTH of them. I've even seen Rescues that will say one dog can't go without the other.
It's a mistake you can't take back. You can only move forward and get your own life in order, then perhaps at a later date, get a calmer pet. Seriously, Yorkshire Terriers are NOT for everyone. They are high energy! And according to what I'm hearing, need lot of grooming and med care (teeth, etc.)....
I adopted a dog years ago from an animal rescue that was six months old. His owners just couldn't keep him. He adjusted wonderfully to my house, my children, etc. He even got a new name. He died at the age of 17, never even 'remembering' his old home.
Despite what we all believe, these are still dogs. They are not babies (even though we call them that); they are dogs. They need lots of love, attention, playtime, etc.
I even wonder at times how anyone over the age of 60 can keep up with one of these puppies! I love mine and wouldn't give her up for the world, but I'm alone here and have lots of time for training, etc. I have no children, no responsibility other than my little Isabella. Believe me, I'm exhausted. At times, I show her the crate!
Please, do what's best for the dog.....find a Yorkie Rescue...they are still young enough where they can be placed in good homes.