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Men had to go through The Poohpie Test before I would even consider them. If Poohpie didn't like you then you were more than likely not worth my time...LOL When I took my Poohpie to work with me one day and my (now husband) was kissing her and even took her to the GYM with him I knew he was the one...LOL There is a man out there for you that will love your babies too...you guys are a package deal! |
Well said Sassyanne, I would never give up my dogs for some guy. Though a partner would have been nice I no longer feel the need to look for aproval in others. I dated a guy years ago who was told' my dogs came first, he said he was going to change that. No he didn't, as soon as I found out I ditched him. My dogs were there first, I chose to have then in my life, they weren't going anywhere. |
Dump that jerk NOW!. As cute as the pic of your furbabys are on the page, your worst problem will be to be sure that a guy isn't wanting to marry you for your dogs. |
There are great guys out there that will love you and your furbabies also:D I found one that loves all of us, we just married this past summer. I have to most respect and love for my husband he accepted me, 3 skin teenagers, and 5 furbutts. In return we all love him dearly and my skin kids even call him "dad" :cool: I lost my first husband 7 years ago with cancer. So there are GREAT men out there that will love the whole package you bring with. :animal-pa |
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I agree, my DH is fabulous and feels much like me about the furbabies... he says that furbutts are MUCH BETTER than most adults he knows :rolleyes::p |
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There is no reason to "waist time" on a guy that is already trying to control anything in your life, There is not a good chance it will get better, usually it gets a lot worse. While your are wasting time trying to make a bad relationship work you may miss out on the right one. Just be yourself and when the right guy comes along he will fit right in :animal36 |
1 Attachment(s) Whew Guys, I just got home from work and read this thread... seems like the overwhelming idea is I should leave him alone. I want to thank all of you for the love... Here is what he is missing out on. |
That's me and Maya...he can't have either one of us . LOL |
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Very nice picture of two beautiful ladies! You go girl and don't pay him another moments notice!! :cool: |
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I know I posted to you - I did say that he said was dumb but on the flip side -- he may have said it to KEEP you - you know - that thing men do if they think a woman is going to leave them ...he may have meant it to play on your emotions and IMHO...it doesn't mean you should dump him over a statement - just find out why he said it and what exactly he meant.... men aren't always the best with words and if you really think you have a future with him and want that - I'd say spend more time with him to get to know him again.....you've been apart for quite a while. |
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On the other hand, when Maya was having her little unexplained sick spells, he never failed to ask "How is your baby??" Also we walk togther for exercise early in the morning, and the other morning he asked me if the girls might like a walk after we finish. That really warmed my heart. So who knows what the jerk really meant. |
First, there are worse things than not having a man. A healthy relationship is based on a partnership. If he knows these dogs are important to you then they need to be important to him. If he is talking about you finding another "man" then he doesn't sound invested in your relationship. You can always tell what a person will do in the future by what they have done in the past, with rare exception. This man has bailed once out of a relationship with you and chances are he will do it again. I would suggest you put a huge gulf of distance between you and "Mr. Uninvested" and look elsewhere for a relationship. Life is too short to keep going out with men who are so selfish and self absorbed. |
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You and Maya are way too cute to be playin' those silly boy games. As soon as a guy said something insensitive like that to me, they'd be OUT THE DOOR. When my husband and I were just dating, he would come and pick up my dog to take her for "ice cream dates". He didn't bring me! Just my dog :) I loved it. |
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Hope you find Mr Wonderful soon love. Hugs Shirl x x |
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What happened was, at our age, he is very lucky to still have his mother AND father still living and doing well. His mother suddenly got ill and it scared him to death. Who did she ask for??? Me. THe sisters and the brother in law, everyone always asks him about me. So that was what made him call that strated us back to talking again. We used to work out together, so then that started back, and then recently the daily walks. So that was kind of how we fell back together. |
Originally Posted by cindymevers First, there are worse things than not having a man. A healthy relationship is based on a partnership. If he knows these dogs are important to you then they need to be important to him. If he is talking about you finding another "man" then he doesn't sound invested in your relationship. You can always tell what a person will do in the future by what they have done in the past, with rare exception. This man has bailed once out of a relationship with you and chances are he will do it again. I would suggest you put a huge gulf of distance between you and "Mr. Uninvested" and look elsewhere for a relationship. Life is too short to keep going out with men who are so selfish and self absorbed. :thumbup::thumbup::thumbup::thumbup: well said!!!!:thumbup::thumbup::thumbup::thumbup: i quoted the wrong one at first so ya... |
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People can say stupid stuff but only YOU know what kind of man he is. so quick question is he HOT ?:D |
Your Mr wonderful will be a dog lover. I find people who don't like animals are selfish people.Your better off without him for sure.:cool: |
After reading your post, my first thoughts were to tell you to run to the nearest exit sign! However, after listening to more of your comments about his behavior, I think the comment by your X was more of a insecurity issue with him. Maybe his statement was made more for HIS behalf than yours. Sounds to me like he does not want you going out on the prowl for other men, but wants you for himself; and the only way to do this is to encourage thoughts in you of NOT being able to get someone else who accepts your little ones. For whatever reason though, I would definitely communicate to him that you are a package deal. No ifs, ands, or buts! Whoever YOU choose, [and the operative term here is YOU] to be with, will accept your two best friends as well!! You have the upper hand here as far as I can see. Keep it that way. Best wishes, keep us posted BTW, you are very beautiful women, both inside and out, and deserve to be treated as such |
Let me just add, because I have been there too :rolleyes:.... We women can be such nurturing and care giving individuals that sometimes we allow others to take advantage of us and not treat us well. I have been engulfed by another before and let the negativity and bad stuff be swept under the rug. Yes, we all have issues and 'maybe' this one is having some himself however, if we do not demand respect we will never receive it. Please take this in the context it is intended... I am a VERY strong woman and even I, in my past, was taken in and not treated right. It can happen so quickly when we have so much compassion. Just a consideration is all. I really do wish you the best of luck!! |
I am new here but would just like to add a thought about this topic. I have been married for 33 years to a man who is definitely not an "animal lover". He never quite understood how I could become so attached to the many pets we have had over the years...until Missy came along! Now everyone is so shocked in how much he has bonded with our little girl. My children are amazed. So maybe there is hope! There is a chance he just said a stupid thing and will realize how wrong he is. Maybe you can talk to him about it and give him a chance to explain. Some people aren't automatically "animal lovers" they just learn from others and from loving furry friends. |
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He's tall dark ok looking in my age range Well employed devoted to chruch volunteer with meals on wheel EVERY first Saturday of the month intelligent articulate used to send me flowers often likes to travel collects windchimes and Buffalo soldier memorbilia financially sound can fix anything eletrical around the house and some other stuff I can't put on a yorkie board:D |
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If you ask me that was the trouble first time around, we did not communicate like we should have. THis time I hope we can talk and work things out better. |
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