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Originally Posted by KelMchel
(Post 2947805)
I always ask myself "Kelly, are you SURE you want to post this on this forum" and again I said yes this time, surely I see now I shouldnt have....I see why so many are run off of this forum, you come here LOOKING for advice and you get torn apart. Thank you for your words of advice on Rylies behavior, first of all, I dont tolerate this behavior, it is the FIRST time ever he has done this, I believe that someone on here said perhaps it was the fact of WHERE he was and perhaps even he remembered that last time he was there, he got poked in the back with a very sharp thing that left him hurting several days....I for one believe that animals are very smart and that they can and do remember things. I want to thank those of you that felt that vet was a bit harsh.....I also want to say that this might be my last post, I dont come on this forum to have my feelings hurt, or have people say ugly things, true, your opinion is your opinion but sometimes that opinion shouldnt be spoken...... |
Not in defense of any one particular person, you DID ask peoples advice. That means you are asking them whether they agree with you or not. You say right there "thank those of you that felt the vet was a bit harsh", so are you only wanting people to agree with you? It's not wrong to want that, but maybe you should state in your post that you want to hear from others who agree with you on the subject instead.
There are a lot of people on this forum that are experienced yorkie owners and really like to get their points across, in this case someone as only saying you should address the aggression issue with care and not take lightly (as in, they do not know how you feel but are suggesting to you maybe to get help with the dog. they did later say you could get a trainers help). That's not something you should take as a blow, but as someone sending you a precautionary suggestion on what you could do.
Now I will also say this. Sometimes I have made a post and didn't get the type of replies that are soft and comforting as I would have liked. But that is the reality of it. If someone sees something as a serious situation, they will give you a serious answer. Sometimes people say things in text that seems harsh but they don't mean it to be that way. You just have to understand that the context in which you read something might not always be how the person replying meant it.
With that, I leave you with this also. Sometimes people want to give advice for worst possible scenario on what could be wrong or what could happen in the long run on a situation. This sometimes is confusing because, for example, not EVERY little problem (especially for a new owner like me) has to be brought to the attention of a vet EVERY time. It's ok to call the vet a million times to ask opinions.
Now my reply to the posts.. If you are too shy to say something to someone who is hitting your dog, then there is a bigger issue than the dog having an aggressive spell. What if someones dog in the future comes up to your dog and attacks it? Will you not say anything to that dogs owner? Hypothetical situation but the relevance lies within the well being of your dog, and you being able to speak up to someone who may be hurting your dog emotionally or physically. I would have said something to the vet. It's not too late to do so. Call up that vet and say that you didn't appreciate him hitting your dog and how the dog cowered down when he did such. Maybe ask him why he did it and what he thought it would accomplish. Then move on to another vet that suits your needs.
That's what I would have done, shy or not. So you should do the same, at least you will know what the vets true intentions were. Whether other people feel the vet was wrong or not, the main thing is that YOU are comfortable with taking your dog someplace. It doesn't matter if you think you were over reacting or if other people think you were, you should not pay someone and have them treat your furbaby if you don't trust them.
Anyway I hope you don't find THIS offensive, I just want to try to help you understand where people are coming from and how you can better handle the responses here. You will not always get a response you want to hear but you can't let that run you off of here, either. People do give really good information and lots of good tid bits for lots of important things and lots of fun things, too!