Rizzo's mom | 05-21-2010 12:36 PM | Boyfriend has gotta go! Quote:
Originally Posted by Sarahjuanita
(Post 2880980)
I plan on leaving his ass this January. I just can't believe the thought over this.
I feel like Me having Cobain was meant to happen. I purchased Cobain on limited funds anyways because, I was in denial and paying for my boyfriends debt when it wasn't even my responsibility. He had debt before he knew me, and this wholem time I was enabling him to be lazy. NO MORE! I have been secretly searching for an apartment on the side and once I do---- Me and Coby are hall assing! | I hope you don't take offense at this but not only is your boyfriend an addict and as all addicts he lies and he also has a disease. Addiction is not a moral weakness or lack of character but a disease. Hope he hits bottom and goes to Narcotics anonymous or rehab and you my dear might think about Nar-anon for yourself.
Because as a spouse to the addict we have a problem of enabling or being co-dependant if you are not totally in love with him which it sounds like you are NOT. Take your baby yorkie and tell him to hit the bricks before years of misery. I speak from experience.
You wouldn' want him to be afraid of the dog ratting him out and hurt the dog if he was high or something. Take care of yourself my dear ( and your baby) |