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I think its soon be time Chloe is starting to go downhill I think... She threw up about 5 minutes ago, and it has some blood in it (I havent rushed to the vet , because i THINK it was blood, im not sure and im waiting to see if maybe its a one time deal) .. Im trying to speand all my time with her, but shes sleeping now and I wanted to post it. Please pray for my baby. Im not ready for this, and I just dont know what to do:( Please, i NEED advice. I havent been thru this before. Most wont know chloe, this is what i posted in another thread. kinda gives you some info. Quote:
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My heart goes out to you in this hard time. I wish you and Chloe well. My prayers are with you. |
This is so sad:(You are both in my prayers. |
I am so very sorry to hear about Chloe. What a darling she must be to you. Stay strong for her and she will hold on till she's ready to cross. Bless your heart.... You both are in my prayers. |
I am so so sorry to hear this, Hold her close and give her lost of love. Please know that my heart goes out to you through this difficult time, you and your sweet Chloe also have my prayers. |
I hope and pray that you have more time with your baby! |
Thank you.. And i just want to mention (because i forgot to before) that im waiting on the desicion to have her PTS. I dont want her to suffer. :(.. But, what if i make the choice and it ISNT really her time? And I have her PTS and she could have had another week, another 2 weeks? i hate this. |
I'm so sorry :( I just layed my first baby to rest in Janurary. He was almost 15 (his birthday is in two days) and I raised him from 10 weeks old. The best advice I can give you is this: it is going to hurt, there is no way it won't. But it is the most loving thing you can do for your baby, to set them free from the pain and to be there with them when you do. They can not make this decision themselves, we must find it in our hearts and be in tune with them enough to know, when the pain is more than they deserve to go through. I won't lie and say it is easy, and I am sure it is different for everyone. For me personally it was one of the hardest moments in my life. But as time has gone on, and the happy memories replace that day in my mind, I realize it is more about my own selfishness, that hurt and pain and grieving was about me being unable to let go. But I know now my baby is in peace and the best choice, as hard as it was for me at the time, was for me to be there with him and hold him in my arms to feel my love as he took his last peaceful breath. Bless you and your Chloe |
I don't think there is any way to be ready for this. Just treasure every minute you have and may God be with you to grant peace and comfort during this most difficult time. We are here for you! |
Thanks AL.. Shes a tough old bird and is good at hiding pain. but she is throwing up again. And she has been whining. I assume from pain. I'm leaving now. And, I dont think she will be coming back with me. :(:(:(:(:( Am I being too hasty? Im going to call my mom to come get me (She lives 5 minutes away) So i can hold her on the way. And tell her how much I truly love her. |
OMG, she is going down hill so fricking fast! within the last half hour. OMG. Im not ready, but she is. |
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I think you will know when it is time. I know its a hard decision to make. We had to put my DH's last k9 partner down.. I wanted to wait to see if maybe he would regain his self ( hip was completely out). But my DH looked at me and said he will in no way let Dak suffer anymore than he had to.. it was so sad but I did understand what he was saying. Dak had worked so hard and now was suffering in pain... I just hope that you don't have to make this decision anytime soon. Big hugs to you! |
I think you can hold on, as long as they are not suffering, until you see the light start to fade in their eyes. When they look at you & they are ready, you will know. It hurts so very much and I feel for you having to make this decision. Trust your little one and just love on her and tell her how wonderful she is and that when she is ready, you will be too. Tell her that it's okay, when she is ready, you will be with her through the end. |
She hasnt been doing good really for the past week. i keep thinking that im just holding on. All she does is sleep. She doesnt eat. And has a hard time getting a drink of water. Its been like this for a week almost. But now she is throwing up, and whining. Do you think its time? I kinda went into a bit of shock just then. I, I think it is time. She just looked at me so pittifully. she opened her eyes, and let them slowly shut again. I know you must be thinking "THEN why are you on this forum and not speanding time with her?!" but she is in my arms. on my bed. Waiting for my mom... Im bringing her to the vet, im going to love her, and maybe say a "see you later" in the car (never a good-bye).. And see what the vet thinks. |
I am so sad for you! I hope the vet may have some better news for you. We'll be waiting for an update. |
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