I need prayers
 

Hello guys!!
This isnt yorkie realated at all, but I need to vent out my depression and frustration.
My Mom has been in the hospital since last thursday, it started with the flu, and now they are saying she has Pneomia. They are saying the pneomia is causing her to have Congestive Heart Failure! They just gave her a stress test on her heart, they think her arteries are clogged. I will have test results in about 2 hours. She is 50!! I cant believe all this is taking place again. My life hasnt been the best. My Moms parents passed away in 02 first my g-pa then my g-ma then about 2 months after that my dad passed away. Then about 6 months after that my Dads dad passed away. Just a little story on my dad in 92 he had a heart transplant, in 02 he started to get sick, he was in line for a new heart and he didnt make it :( The scary thing is my mom is in the same hospital where my dad passed away. That scares me!! When my dad passed away he was at the hospital, it was real early in the morning (like 4am) my brother had dropped him off and my dad told him to go home and he will call us. Well we all woke up around 8 and called the hospital and they told us my dad passed away!!! :eek: We didnt know what to do! We were so shocked that they didnt call us and tell us what was going on. I try to have faith, but it is so hard for me. Due to half of my family passing away. Now with my mom being sick I am so lost. If something happens to my mom I dont know how I will function. I am so glad that I have my boyfriend Tom. We have been together for 3 years. He wasnt with me when all that happened with my family ,but he has been there for me a lot! If I didnt have him I dont think I would have anyone. So I am asking for everyone to say some prayers for me and my family. :D Sorry to shed my family life to all of you, but I like you guys. I dont really have that many friends I can talk to. I have tom but he is at work :rolleyes: Thanks:thumbs up for listening and reading, and being there for me. :luvu:

You absolutely have my prayers, sweetie. :hands: You come here as often as you need to vent, to seek help, to get encouragement or just a hug. Be strong for you mom and take care of yourself too. :ghug:

I can totally relate to your story. My Dad has had congestive heart failure for a long time. It's very hard to see your parents like this. I certainly will pray for you and your family.
:ghug:
Paula

Oh honey, I'm sorry your going threw such scary times.
No one want's to see their mom sick. I will keep you and your
mom in my thoughts and prayer's. Think positive sweetie.
Come here anytime you feel the need. There is always
someone ready to listen and help in anyway they can.
Be strong for your Mom. I am sure she is worrying about
you as well.

Hugs,

I am sending my deepest sympathies out to you! Losing one person is hard enough so
I can't imagine having it seem like it's all thrown at you at once. You and your mom are
in my thoughts & prayers for sure. Keep your head up! :) Easier said than done.

Hugs from Vicky & Zoe in Florida!
 

:hug: I will totally send some good thoughts your way! I can somewhat understand you, as far as most of the family being dead part. (At 23--and an only child--I only have 1 living grandparent and I only have memories of 2 grandparents in total, though my other grandfather was alive when I was born). Other than my parents and my Aunt & Uncle there's no one else. It makes you really value the people you do still have.

As tragic as your father's death was and as difficult as it will be for you to remain optimistic I would be positive about it all! My Mom went through a cancer scare, I was positive and all turned out well. My Aunt has been sick my entire life (cancer, TSS, and more) and actually had pneumonia AND legionnaires and we were all positive and she's still around and as crazy and zany as before. If you're positive then the person that's sick just absorbs your good thoughts (and good thoughts have never made a person sick!).

All the same know you're not alone, you have us here on YT to lend whatever support we can! :hug:

I will keep your Mom and you in my prayers. Is it poosible to get a second opinion or get her to another hospital. My heart goes out to you on all of your losses.

I am so sorry to hear about your mom!!! Keep your head up and you will be in our prayers!!!!

Bless your heart! It is so traumatic when our parents get ill. I can really identify with you and your lack of family now. All I have left is my husband and I am so fortunate to have him.

Congestive heart failure sounds horrible but it is not a death sentence. I was diagnosed with it in the winter of 2003. They will give her diuretics to take to keep the fluid off (and they generally make you feel weak) but you can live a long time with the disease. I think the term is what scares family.

I know you'll stay strong for your mother. We daughters do what we have to, don't we? Know that you are in thoughts and prayers of many. Just help your Mother watch salt and her fluid retention and hopefully with no other complications, she will be okay. God bless.

Thank you all so much! Your support means a lot to me!! I will keep you all posted when I find out more :D

You, your Mother and your family receive prayers and blessings from me!

You and your Mom are in my prayers. :cry8:

You are in my prayers :hands::hands::hands:.

Sending prayers and hugs your way!

I'm remembering yr Mom in my Prayers & for you too! I know it is scary. My Mom has been through alot with her health in the last 5 years. They've come so far with technology & medicine, especially in the field of cardiology. Pls keep us posted & remember we are here when you need to talk. Feel free to pm me whenever you need to. Wrapping our arms around you with Hugs!:ghug:

i am so sorry you are going through this. It's so hard cause losing loved ones is heart aching. I know they are all in a good place now where there is no more pain and suffering. Your mom will make it through and she is in my prayers. Hope you keep your head up and be strong for your mom. You are a very good daughter and your bf is a nice guy to be there for you when things get rough. Wishing for the best.

I am so sorry to hear about your mom's condition. I pray she will be okay. I know exactly what you are going through. Hugs.

You got my prayers too:hands:

You and your mom are in my prayers. I know how hard it is to lose family. I lost dad in 2000, a brother in 03 and then mom in 05. Another brother has been fighting cancer for years. First lung cancer, had one lung removed...then throat cancer, then it went to his kidneys..had a kidney removed...after that it went to his brain...then brain surgery.........he also had blockages, he has 10 stents in his heart BUT he is still with us with help from the good Lord above. Just remember....GOD can do what doctors can't....trust in GOD and he will pull her through if it is his will. May GOD bless you and your mom.:hands:

I wish you lived closer. :ghug: You are in my thoughts. X

I will pray for you and your mother
 

So sorry to hear all of this going on in your life. The same happened to me, My mother died at 53 of cancer and 2 years later my father died of cancer., let alone my grandmas, uncles and aunts. I know how you are feeling. Its been a long lonley life without my family since i was only 20 when this all happened. That is why I turned to animals.They are my family now. If you need some one to talk to I am here for you!!!!! Be strong for mom. God bless you and God help you through these rough times. Blondschillin

Hugs and prayers from Virginia!

Update on my mom
 

Hey guys!
Thank you all for your support, it means soooo much to me! My Mom is doing a lot better, she got out of the hospital last Mon. She is staying at my house with my boyfriend and peanut :) Which peanut LOVES his gma here with him during the day when we are at work. He is in heaven! :) Her pneomia cleared up ( how ever you spell it) and we are working on getting her heathly with her CHF. Eating good, excersicing and all that fun stuff!!! So things are better :) Thank you guys for all your prayers and thoughts, you guys really helped me out when I needed it! :D
Love Deanna

Oh, that is great news! So glad to hear it. I'm sure as happy as you are to have your mom with you, Peanut is LOVING it. :D Kids love how their Gramma's spoil them. :rolleyes:

Sending you thoughts and prayers