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VickieDavis 03-19-2009 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Mommy_2_Roxy (Post 2531077)
What an angel you are for giving him such a wonderful forever home!!!
You are a wonderful person!!!! Harley is lucky - and so are you :) :) :)
What a beautiful ending!!! :D :D :D :D

Thanks for your comments. Its still just a beginning as far as I'm concerned. We NEED each other...all 3 of us. Actually the 3 of are starting a new beginning right now so I'm so very thankful to have them as my best friends and companions.

yorkiemomto4 03-20-2009 02:11 AM

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Originally Posted by tobymom (Post 2531062)
A small child is just too much of a risk to have around a very small dog. Little kids can't reason; a little animal is like a wiggly toy. Is it really fair to your child even, to have a small delicate animal around? Their fascination with a tiny animal is natural. Who would get the blame if your little dog got nippy with your baby? Is it not enough to have a precious child, that one also needs a precious animal? Why not wait a little.

I think some people can handle a precious child and a precious animal together. All 3 of my kids grew up with dogs. They are all grown now and on their own but in all the years when my kids were just babies, i never had a little dog hurt by any of them. They were always supervised and when they got older they were taught to always be gentle with the pets. Now i have 4 yorkies and 4 grandkids....my grandkids are so gentle with animals also and well supervised. Its all according to the parents!

yorkiemomto4 03-20-2009 02:17 AM

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Originally Posted by VickieDavis (Post 2529967)
Thanks but he's been my joy!!! Not to mention the little girl I found after him. My Angel. She truly is an Angel. Here she is saying her special yorkie prayers for all the injured and sick pup friends.

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Vickie, you are a blessing for taking care of this little one! I love the name Harley...that was my dads name. I love the pic with the yorkie praying, that about the cutest thing i ever saw.

sherrijmkassie 03-20-2009 02:19 AM

Thanks for sharing Harley's story...I love happy endings and he is a lucky little guy to have found you as his forever mommy.

Bianca 03-20-2009 02:25 AM

What a story! I am so glad you both have one another and yes you are an angel!:littleang:littleang

AprilLynn 03-21-2009 11:37 AM

awww. They are both beautiful!
He doesn't even know he is any different!

One of the sheep dogs at the barn we used to board at when we lived in Florida had 3 legs also. She was hit by a MacK Truck and had to lose one! :( I'll tell you one thing...she had puppies and didnt like anyone near them, one day I went to see them and when she saw me she chased me all ther way across that yard and I was RUNNING, lol. Momma don't play. lol

VickieDavis 03-21-2009 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Bianca (Post 2531421)
What a story! I am so glad you both have one another and yes you are an angel!:littleang:littleang

Thanks Bianca!
and I love your signature box!

yorkie mad 03-21-2009 11:54 AM

It makes me glad to be in the world with people like you in it Vickie x

VickieDavis 03-21-2009 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Nikis2 (Post 2530027)
Life always amazes me how angels just appear in your life when you least expect it. Giving us all a hard lesson to learn. God Bless You and Your Angel

You are so right as breeders it is our responsibility to make sure our puppies are going to be going to loving safe environments not to the first call to get the $$. I love to tell people horror stories so they are really aware of the responsibility and the fact that they are taking home a BABY! And they need to be treated as such or bring them back. HOLLA! You have to sit down and teach people the proper way to take care of a delicate baby and that surely can not be done through the internet or a pet store where millions of animals are winding up in unsafe homes.

Can I have an AMEN!! to that!!

VickieDavis 03-21-2009 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by yorkie mad (Post 2533949)
it makes me glad to be in the world with people like you in it vickie x

wow...what a very sweet thing to say. You made my day!

VickieDavis 03-21-2009 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by AprilLynn (Post 2533921)
awww. They are both beautiful!
He doesn't even know he is any different!

One of the sheep dogs at the barn we used to board at when we lived in Florida had 3 legs also. She was hit by a MacK Truck and had to lose one! :( I'll tell you one thing...she had puppies and didnt like anyone near them, one day I went to see them and when she saw me she chased me all ther way across that yard and I was RUNNING, lol. Momma don't play. lol

No he really doesnt know any different. And he can keep up with Angel with no problem at all and she's 2 pounds bigger and has 4 feet. LOL
Thats pretty funny about getting chased out of the yard away from her puppies. Such a funny mental image.

VickieDavis 03-21-2009 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by yorkiemomto4 (Post 2531419)
Vickie, you are a blessing for taking care of this little one! I love the name Harley...that was my dads name. I love the pic with the yorkie praying, that about the cutest thing i ever saw.

Thanks for your kind words. They truly are my joy.

YorkieShadow 03-21-2009 12:26 PM

Im so glad you gave him such a wonderful home. and I agree about small children and small dogs. even thou we had small dogs and children at the same time. I would not would to sell a pup to someone with a small child. If I did I would have to see how the child did with the pup on many visits, but even with them being supervised accidents happen and small children can fall on pups and being so small it could kill it.

mscat 03-21-2009 12:33 PM

Vicki,
I absolutely loved your story. Your avater is so cute of the smiling Yorkie:)
i'd like to comment on small children and small animals. Children can be taught at a early age to handle little animials the right way. However, a child who is left unsupervised with a small animal/is never ok. Children are impulsive and will act without thinking. They do not consider their behavior to the consquences . Children do not act the same when they are not supervised . AS soon as they are left alone , they are "going to behave a lot differently"
Of course ever parent will say "my child " knows how to behave . Or has been taught. The parent would be surprised to find out just how their kid really acts when the parent is not around .
SUPERVISION. Never leave a little dog alone with a small child. Some parents are not fully commited in doing so. It is too easy for accidents to occur . Small animals are the ones that are always going to be hurt. And it happens quickly.
Vicky, I am so glad you were able to take in this precious yorkie. I am glad he does not mind three legs.
Thank you for posting this. IMO, it was not offensive at all. Actually , in all the Yorkie books I've read it is reccomended that yorkies should not go to homes that have very young children in them.

VickieDavis 03-21-2009 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by mscat (Post 2534010)
Vicki,
I absolutely loved your story. Your avater is so cute of the smiling Yorkie:)
i'd like to comment on small children and small animals. Children can be taught at a early age to handle little animials the right way. However, a child who is left unsupervised with a small animal/is never ok. Children are impulsive and will act without thinking. They do not consider their behavior to the consquences . Children do not act the same when they are not supervised . AS soon as they are left alone , they are "going to behave a lot differently"
Of course ever parent will say "my child " knows how to behave . Or has been taught. The parent would be surprised to find out just how their kid really acts when the parent is not around .
SUPERVISION. Never leave a little dog alone with a small child. Some parents are not fully commited in doing so. It is too easy for accidents to occur . Small animals are the ones that are always going to be hurt. And it happens quickly.
Vicky, I am so glad you were able to take in this precious yorkie. I am glad he does not mind three legs.
Thank you for posting this. IMO, it was not offensive at all. Actually , in all the Yorkie books I've read it is reccomended that yorkies should not go to homes that have very young children in them.

Thanks so much for your kind words. I don't feel like anything special for taking him in. I feel special because he came into my life. The avatar smiling is my Harley. My husband is jealous of the attention my furkids get but thats just one of the reasons he's my soon-to-be-ex. These heartbeats at my feet have given me more joy than I ever thought I could have in my life. If someone doesn't want them in their life then they're not going to be in mine. Plain and simple.
I'm glad I posted Harley's story. If just one person learned something..then it was worth it.

kezza 03-21-2009 12:51 PM

Wow..what a heartwarming story..made my night:)
Harley is just so adorable and i'm so happy the little guy has a safe and secure and loving home with you!
I personally don't think it is a good idea to have a very small dog with very young children...just my opinion, and i'm sure alot would disagree with me but Unless you are willing and able to supervise at all times and teach the child to be gentle and respectful, it will not work, and will only end in tears.:(

VickieDavis 03-21-2009 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by kezza (Post 2534035)
Wow..what a heartwarming story..made my night:)
Harley is just so adorable and i'm so happy the little guy has a safe and secure and loving home with you!
I personally don't think it is a good idea to have a very small dog with very young children...just my opinion, and i'm sure alot would disagree with me but Unless you are willing and able to supervise at all times and teach the child to be gentle and respectful, it will not work, and will only end in tears.:(

Well thats how I feel. I know there are loads of responsible owners and parents but a small child doesn't always realize the consequences of their actions. A 3 yr old doesn't know that this little dog can be broken if thrown to the floor. If its toys survive then why shouldn't a dog? Thanks for your comments. I think I've become addicted to this group! I've been on the computer the entire day! LOL

kezza 03-21-2009 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by VickieDavis (Post 2534044)
Well thats how I feel. I know there are loads of responsible owners and parents but a small child doesn't always realize the consequences of their actions. A 3 yr old doesn't know that this little dog can be broken if thrown to the floor. If its toys survive then why shouldn't a dog? Thanks for your comments. I think I've become addicted to this group! I've been on the computer the entire day! LOL

hhhmmmnnn...it doesn't take long to become addicted!;) I seem to spend half my life on here browsing and have made so many new likeminded friends!:D:aimeeyork

celstu1 03-25-2009 08:48 AM

How precious!!!! I love them! :) You are Harleys angel, I am so glad he found his way to you! :)

VickieDavis 03-26-2009 01:57 PM

I'd like to bump this

LeosMama 03-29-2009 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by VickieDavis (Post 2529949)
Heres a little album of before surgery and after surgery. I hope this link works
Kodakgallery.com: Slideshow End

I read the story you had posted. So of course I had to see the pictures. I love the one of your pup smiling. He seems to be very happy. God Bless.

ambernicole21 03-29-2009 09:30 PM

What a great story!!!

Lucia 03-29-2009 10:36 PM

What a lovely story! Harley is such a cutie:D xxx

Akbritt 03-29-2009 11:14 PM

You and Harley are so lucky to have each other...I'm so glad you are showing him what a loving home is like. Bless you for saving this precious baby! As for small children and small dogs....i do think it depends on the how the children are raised...i know they are wonderful mothers to both skin kids and fur babies here...and i love hearing how well they get along. As for me, i have a 3 year old daughter...who is usually very gentle...but i have come to the decision to wait to get my furbaby until my daughter is older. Its so hard to wait, but i know in my situation that my family as a whole will be happier when the time comes to get our new puppy. Besides, i get exhausted just running after my daughter all day, i couldn't handle 2 babies right now.

VickieDavis 10-02-2009 06:38 AM

bump this post

LDandPasquale 10-02-2009 06:54 AM

Vickie, thank you for bumping this....i saw the date of the original post and thought to myself...good lord...wth have i been? WHY did i not see this post? What a great story and you truly are a special person. Both your dogs are so adorable.

ritzydaisy 10-02-2009 08:52 AM

You gave a happy ending to a heartbreaking story. Bless you.

sherile47 10-02-2009 12:48 PM

My little dog Moses broke his leg the day after I got him. He was 10 months old. I have had 2 yorkies for the past 6 years and they always slept with us and would jump off our bed with no problem. Before anyone screams, we did lift them down most times, but when the refrigerator door opens, down they would go before we could catch them. So, I put Moses on our bed with Isabel, and early in the morning I got up to go to the bathroom. My other dogs always stayed still when I got up, but not thinking about him being in a new environment and being nervous, I left him on the bed. He jumped down to get to me and broke his leg. Guilt is not even the word. I just didn't think he would be any different from my Harley (who was killed by a dog in Dec) and Isabel. Anyway, we took him to the vet, he set his leg and after 2 months, decided it wasn't healing, bone was deterioating, so he amputated it. Poor little Mosey, new home and loses his leg! Does he notice? Nope. Like you said, he was up the next day and now it's been 4 months later, he runs, plays, does everything (except jump off the bed!!). He is my sweety and while I can now get up at night to pee and he doesn't come too, he is still at my feet every step I take when I am home. I am extra careful with him, but really, he is a happy, healthy little guy and we wouldn't rrade him for the world. Now Isabel might have a different story!

donna ledford 10-02-2009 01:07 PM

kids and puppies
 
I have a 4 year old granddaughter that always wants to play with Ginger. The rules are that she is never to pick her up and that she is to sit on the floor and pet her. Of course I do not ever leave them unsupervised. Kids are unpredictable (well at least all I have ever been around) and you never can tell what might happen. If the child got a little scratch or even started giving kisses and the kid didn't like it they could very easily just throw them down.
That was a wonderful thing that you did with Harley. Our babies don't have to be perfect to love them (just like our husbands).:)
Ginger and her Mommy

lechy02 10-02-2009 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by LunaBelle (Post 2530035)
First off, I do agree with Vickie that her story is a good warning for breeders to be careful when placing dogs in homes with small children. And I cannot believe those people put that poor puppy in the garage after it was injured!!:(:mad:

With that being said, I have two little boys, 3 & 2 and an 8 month old daughter and we have a yorkie. I agree with lil fu fu girl 100% in that children are children and no matter how gentle they are they should never be left unattended with a small dog, or any dog for that matter! The problem here falls completely on the adults who are not being responsible and supervising the interactions between child/dog. I again agree with Vickie that the households that make it work between small dog/child are exceptions to the rule - and my household is one of them.

I don't think it should be a blanket rule that breeders should not give their puppies to households with children. It should depend on the family. I know for a fact that my breeder (who I met here on YT) is VERY picky/careful about who gets to take her babies home. I had to fill out a puppy interview and we talked a lot before I even went to see her puppies. I also think that had she gotten a bad feeling upon our meeting, she would not have had a problem turning me down. After meeting my husband and I, and seeing how my 3 yr. old behaved, I think she knew we were responsible parents and felt comfortable with us taking one of her puppies.

We are very strict about when/how the children and puppy interact because we do realize yorkies are small, fragile dogs and that children are not to be trusted at such a young age. The children are never aloud to carry the puppy. They have to sit on the floor if they want to play, and my husband and I are always sitting there with them. Our yorkie loves our kids and vise versa. They will all grow up together and that's special to me because I grew up with a yorkie and those memories are some of the strongest that I have from being a small child.

I'm sorry this is so long, I just feel strongly that there are exceptions and some households can make it work. It all depends on the ADULTS in the house, not so much the children.

PS Vickie - your babies are both adorable! :)


That is exactly what I was thinking, it depends on the Adults in the house not the kids!! When I first brough my yorkie home he was only 7 weeks and 2 pounds, it took a lot of supervision and drilling into my 8 year old son's head that we had to be very careful. Now sometimes Motley is rougher with my son then my son is with him.:p


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