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I just saw this and PMed you...I hope it's nothing serious. If I don't hear back from you soon, I'm going to call you. I'm worried :( |
I'm worried too.:( |
Oh gosh!! I hope you and your little ones are ok!! |
Just read this, sending you a pm right now! I hope it's not anything too terrible. :( |
Sure hope everything is okay!:confused: |
Brief as I dont wanna talk about it... Im sorry I just have mixed emotions .. Heaven ~ is going back to Lee:( .... It is way too soon with Bleu .. there is a conflict of interest between the both of them... Im just sick at my stomach... I love this little girl as she sits in my lap.... I called Lee and she was so understanding and we want what is best for Heaven ( SHE WILL ALWAYS BE MY HEAVEN) :( I can get a baby from Lee later on but right now it is too soon. I didn't listen to my hubby or any of yall here on YT I was selfish and wanted my girl.... I could not sleep I was moody and dreamed every day of Heaven and I got her and now I must give her back to Lee to protect her.... There is a wonderful understanding between Lee and I and she is the greatest to deal with...... Yall Im sick..... I mean I did not go to church today I hurt all over..... I dont know if I will ever get over this... IM SO HEARTBROKEN AND THIS IS IN CAPS BECAUSE IM HEARTBROKEN!!! Nothing is wrong with Heaven she is PERFECT PERFECT PERFECT!!!! I dont wanna let her go ...... |
Oh, I am so sorry!! It's just not working out between the two of them? |
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she and bleu aren't getting along? sometimes it takes days to weeks for dogs to get used to each other |
I am sooo very sorry to hear this. Is there anyway you can give it a few more days for an adjustment period? |
So sorry it's not working out, maybe they need a little more time to adjust. Is that not possible. |
Is that the problem? It is so NORMAL. It can takes weeks. Mine are barely tolerating Emmy now and I keep them seperated while I am at work every day. |
When I first got Bentley (my maltese), Hannah would not even look at me. She was so upset and sad that it broke my heart. I even thought about rehoming him. I was so heartbroken because I thought that Hannah felt like I didn't love her anymore, she even acted like she didn't love me anymore...she wouldn't sit in my lap or let me hold her. She was so mean to Bentley too, she would just run across the room and bite him for no reason. He was sad, she was sad and I was sad. I thought that it was not going to work out and I was asking around in my family if anyone would want to take him, and then they started liking each other. Then they became best friends and they still are best friends. It took about 2-3 weeks for the adjustment. I am not sure if this is what is going on with you, but I just wanted to give you some encouragment. I am sorry that it isn't working out....:( |
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That's what happened to me. My other two wouldn't "talk" to me for the first several days and even have tried attacking Emmy. They now see there is enough love and attention for all and are slowly coming around. |
Seems like the thread just gets longer and longer and I am sorry... I truly am I had told my hubby and 2 boys they could have mommy again cause I got my girl... All I ever have wanted is a girl.. I have 2 bio boys and I bought Bleu to fill the void of having another child... He was so pretty that I knew he was a girl WHY ASK? Hubby is signing paperwork and whamo I turn my yorkie over and low and behold I have a boy...I felt like it was meant to be and now I know for a fact it was meant to be due to his health condition.... I get on Yt and it is really the worse place for me to be with all the girls Heaven has a new Valentine Blanket and 3 toys...(OH GOD I CANT STAND THIS) When I got her I truly felt like my dream had come true.... I had so many plans ... (IM MESSED UP I CANT TYPE) anyways..... My mama just totally fell in love with her.. She is the first person I went and showed... I showed her off like you would bringing a new baby from the hospital.. Then got online last night and all the CONGRATS... TURNS INTO GLOOM.... Im sorry I had yall all excited..... I woke up and immediately got her this morning and I looked up at her beautiful little face and I just melted.... To me it is shattering ... Bleu and her do not get along at all.. When Bleu is put up he knows she is around and claws his house to the point it is horrible.. He barks constantly and hyper venilates.. He is in a cast so I have to hold him to get him to catch his breath and calm down... He would not stop ... He never settled down unless I was holding him... If he was down on the floor he wanted to where she was and he was going to give it all he had in his 3 pound body to get her.. He thinks he is big... Lee seems to think he has a complex due to his cast .. I agree cause she knows best.. She says once he is out of his cast he should do better... She said all dogs amaze her... We talked and she knew I had Bleu and I was in a trial period of sorts to make sure Bleu and Heaven would get along... Well Bleu failed the test....Im sorry i did not listen to anyone... My Bleu is trained in obedience and knows 10-15 commands and he would not respond to anything ... he acted out pitifully..... I am so glad noone was around cause he should be shameful... Heaven is a doll.. Loveable, Cuddle Bug, Personality Plus, has had no accidents, I take her out every 2-3 hours though ate like a champion .. She fit so well.. I only have to believe that God has bigger and better plans for her in the ring and I am not the one...I dont know what else it could be ...I feel horrible... I know Bleu and his personality and I never would have dreamed this not in a million years! |
thank you this is encouraging ! She still has to go back I dont think I can say the words go back anymore... Quote:
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Oh Vicki.. My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry.:( |
I was really concerned about getting Holly so close to Gracie's surgery. Knowing she would be in casts I did not want her to think that I got Holly because she was sick. I purposely postponed Gracie's surgery until after she and Holly had gotten acquainted and became buds. That took about 2-3 weeks. Now they are inseparable. Maybe you can try again with Heaven after Bleu is out of his cast and has recovered. He might feel threatened and vulnerable being in his cast. It is kind of like having two dogs visit each other, one on a leash and one that is not. The one on the leash feels threatened because there is no means of escape. Something similar might be going on with Bleu. |
Vicki, please don't be too hard on yourself about this. You are doing what is best for Bleu at this time. I support your decision, you know in your heart what is best for you and Bleu. Heaven will always have a place in your heart. |
I kid you not this is what the breeder said! Quote:
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I really am trying not to be hard on myself.. I thank you for your kindness its just Noone knows the void this little girl has filled in just less than 2 days.... I love all things girly and this was the closest I was getting to a girl... She was my Valentines she is my love and you are right when I love I love forever and she will always be "MY HEAVEN" yall wanna know whY I named her that well I will tell you ... Bleu got his name from Bleu Boy ... If you type in Bleu Boy in your search engine and hit images a Abraham Lincoln guy will come up .. well this picture was behind our couch when I was a alittle girl my dad loved the art work.. My dad died in 1992 with cancer... I named Bleu after my dads favorite piece of art... then Heaven... Well where is my dad... These babies give me unconditional love just like my dad did and when I love on them it is a void that is filled because my dad is gone... That is where Bleu and Heaven came from Quote:
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Idk just a thought. Sweetie my heart goes out to you i cannot even begin to imagine the pain that you are in right now. I am so sorry all of this is happening :( I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers. Hugs Mary |
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I take dog food to the local shelters for years....Every payday, I would buy a couple 40 lb bags and take them up there... Here is the story...I had just gotten off work and stopped to pick up dog food and take it to the shelter...While I was at the shelter visiting with the volunteers...I hear this pathetic screaming...howling going on....And I could not understand why no one was checking on the pup making all the racket...So I head back there...I saw the dirtiest matted little poodle just going on and on....I had a silk suit on that day....So I could not pick it up.... But I stuck my hands inside and petted and loved on it...The shelter had given it a name of Sami....I went up front and told them to give me the paper work that I was adopting that poor thing....That she deserved better.....Filled out the paperwork...They told me that I would have to come back the next day to pick the dog up..Had to be fixed first...Said not a problem...Made arrangements for my daughter to go by and pick the dog up since I had meetings all day...They said fine...Daughter calls me from the shelter the next day and says that there is no girl poodle there...Only a boy... I just knew it was a girl...Never looked underneath..lol Who names a boy Sami...lol...Maybe Sammy...I renamed him Romeo...He was the best pet I ever had.... Joyce |
We actually discussed it ... but came to this resolution:( she did not recommend Bleu coming to her house because it is better if the dog comes to your house lee said because it is his territory his stomping grounds... I agreed with her i just never thought he would be so possessive Quote:
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that is a cute story! he had me fooled! Quote:
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Is there a family member or girl friend close by that could keep Heaven for you til Bleu comes around so to speak? Maybe a Mom or sister or girlfriend? And then slowly reintroduce them... These are just suggestions....No one but you can know what you need to do but I just thought maybe to toss some ideas out... Vicki, you are in my prayers.. Joyce |
Oh Vicki, I am so sorry this has happened! I think everyone is right... Bleu is just feeling insecure in his cast. He as also been your be all and end all since he's been ill and now his little nose is put out. Just bad timing I guess, but how were you to know? One good thing is your breeder is so understanding.. imagine if she was a B^%*. :thumbup: to breeder! Don't feel bad about getting us all excited etc. , you follow your heart, although it is breaking. Things will work out, it always does somehow, we will be here to see you through this and to welcome a sister for Bleu when the the time is right. Oh gosh I'm crying now. I must just add, you make me smile when you forget the lower case or use capitals on purpose:) Hugs, Sheilagh |
Awww, I felt so happy for you, but now it is so sad to read you can't keep this adorable girl. I would love for you to have heaven, perhaps someone can keep your little heaven and you can go visit and eventually work her into your home. She is adorable, what a cute face. Lots of luck and prayers for God to give you peace as you choose or let go. (((huugggss))) |
oh sweetie :( I want to cry with you this morning :( It's got to be so hard for you but I commend you on how well you are taking care of Bleu. I really don't know what to say (((hugs))) |
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