| nvnvgirl | 01-26-2008 08:15 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by yorkiesmiles
(Post 1704636)
I know you want to protect Max, but at the same time you want a play mate for him.
I adopted 2 yorkies when they were almost 1 1/2 yrs old -- I was a nervous wreck about bringing in older dogs, because even though I used to breed Bichons & Siamese -- I had never brought an adult pet into my house. But it has worked out so well, I would do it again easily.
Yes, they are adorable as puppies, but with older dogs you miss the chewing everything up stage & often times they will be housebroken.
If these 2 came from a puppymill that is really sad, but you could provide them a forever home & they would be so grateful for the love. Are you thinking of taking them both in?
In the long run - does it really matter where they came from or which story is the truth? I know you want to know the real story -- but that doesn't change their need for a loving forever home
Spaying soon will be important. It may take time with Max -it could be a few days of adjustment or it could be a couple of mths. I really believe a lot of that comes down to how you handle the adjustment.
Praying you can make the best decision for all. | Hi~ I have no qualms about bringing in an adult dog at all! In fact, I really want one who is about the same age as Max....and if it were just ME and Max, I'd be happy to take in just about anything, but I have a husband to consider and he can make the most awful noise when something he doesn't like occurs:rolleyes: . And I don't care if it's from a puppy mill per se....in my opinion, it's an animal who needs a home and love and care.....my only question about that is from some things I've read that some of those may have really bad genetic illnesses. Which, if I were in a better financial position, I would be happy to take on. And I'm not saying that if something happened that was unforseen that we wouldn't or couldn't deal with it, but I have to say, I know what we can deal with without my husband screaming at me for huge vet bills and having strife between us, and the animals being upset when all I want is for a happy and nice life for them. And on that subject, I don't feel like it's fair to take in any animal especially if you are AWARE that it's got health issues and then realize "oh gee....I can't afford this"....it's not fair to the dog who could have found a better, more suitable home and had a better chance. That's all I'm wondering...is there any way to just make the best decision in those cases? I don't expect a puppy or instant perfection; but I don't want to take on something that is going to put my dh over the edge (and please, work with me here....I have to live with him...you don't!), or just not be the right fit for the dog either. Of course, if I brought the dog home.....there's just no way I'd be finding another home for it regardless of the issues, but I'd like to avoid as much heartache as possible. I just lost my two parrots that were my LIFE for the last 18 and 20 yrs within a year of each other and I'm just not emotionally up for KNOWN heartache, which is why I posted this. |