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Brooke.. Will these visions ever go away.. I haven't slept in days and i want this hurt and pain to go away.. I can't stop crying Your baby was the first to go yesterday. I am so sorry you lost your little one. Gather her pictures, all of them. Any time that vision comes creeping up on you, look at her pictures. It helps, it really does. |
I know this is an incredible difficult time, I have known a few people that have been helped a bit by writing down funny stories, cute stories, and other favorite memories of their Yorkies. Also, I have known a few that have created a Yorkie scrapbook, with favorite pictures and trinkets, which gives them a book to look at any time they want to grieve. |
I have heard of keeping a scrapbook too. |
The pain will never go away completely, but will get easier to bear. Soon the pain will be replaced by pleasant memories. God Bless You. |
This isnt quite the same thing but my friend has so badly wanted a baby(human baby) and she was devasted by a miscarraige. She grieved by making a scrapbook of anthing she had during that time(she obviously didnt have photos so she had to be creative) . It helped her deal with her pain. |
I remember how it happened with me 2 months ago, I was hearing my baby Yufee making noise with his water and food bowls, feeling him around me and keeping low light in my bedroom at night, I still don't turn the lights off when I sleep :( I didn't want to believe that I lost him so I left everything the way it was for a few days and this was making me cry even more. Maybe if you hide all the pictures and their belongings it will feel better cause u start crying hysterically after you see a picture or a toy, that brings too much memories and if u hide them for a while that may comfort you a bit... spend more time outside and keep yourself busy with something, or go see a therapist and talk about your baby - when you share it with a specialist they know how to calm you down and get over the grief a bit :( |
I haven't experienced this heartbreak but I wanted to say those who have - you touch more people than you know - I also had a hard time sleeping and spent yesterday morning in tears for your angels.... I posted this before - but if ANYONE needs help with their photos or cropping and framing pictures of their RB babies - I will be happy to do my best - all you have to do is pm me... Just always remember the happy little face smiling down on you - I really believe with all my heart that we ARE reunited when the time is right. Your babies know you love & miss them....and they don't want you sad. Big hugs to you.... |
My heart breaks for you. When Sophie passes I though I would go insane. I felt so bad I couldn't cope. She went suddenly with no warning. For a few days I couldn't touch anything that was hers. At first I wanted to box everything up and keep it near me. I could not stop crying, seeing her, hearing her, calling for her. The pain in immense but it does get better. I found closure in taking her things to the shelter, all but her collar. When I saw those dogs at the shelter I knew I had done the right thing. Sophie was such a sharing dog, she would bring her little duck to me whenever I wasn't feeling good. Those doggies needed things - especially love, and she had everything while she was here. They let me pass the toys out, and let me tell you, it did my heart good to see them being played with and enjoyed. Find peace in whatever way you can and don't feel 'abnormal' about the way you handle the grieving process for your baby. Windy and Lida Rose |
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Bandit has been gone almost 2 months, and I miss him every day also. We have his ashes and a picture of him on a shelf. When my husband was cleaning my sons' room he found the little red bow that the groomer put on him. (My son hated the idea that a boy had a bow, so he removed it and swore it just fell out). It was very painful to find that little bow but we put it with his box. It gets easier every day. Yesterday was the first day I cried in at least a week, and that was only because of the stories of Mocha, Molly and Mattie. You will heal Brooke, give it time and do what ever you have to. I hope you'll come back to YT and talk about Mocha often. I know that will help to heal. I'm thinking of you! |
I remember how it happened with me 2 months ago, I was hearing my baby Yufee making noise with his water and food bowls, feeling him around me and keeping low light in my bedroom at night, I still don't turn the lights off when I sleep I didn't want to believe that I lost him so I left everything the way it was for a few days and this was making me cry even more. Maybe if you hide all the pictures and their belongings it will feel better cause u start crying hysterically after you see a picture or a toy, that brings too much memories and if u hide them for a while that may comfort you a bit... spend more time outside and keep yourself busy with something, or go see a therapist and talk about your baby - when you share it with a specialist they know how to calm you down and get over the grief a bit __________________ Kaya's mum-to-be Tsveta, you are entitled to your opinion but I think you have to cry to get past a death. I hate, hate, HATE, HATE to cry. I hurt for days afterward. My body aches, I get head aches and my sinuses hurt like he**. But holding it in makes me feel sick all over. I'd rather hurt for a few days than feel sick and not be able to let it go. I hope you are feeling better now, you said this happened 2 months ago, how are you feeling now? |
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