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What can I do Hi, I have been a member for a while but only just got our yorkie, she is 7 years old and was owned by a friend of my mums. Anyway this guy has passed away and it was left to my mum to take care of her. She is very small and has always been very friendly (the dog that is) well the thing is my mum is 74 and is not able to walk her as much as she needs so we have adopted her. Now, I have had a couple of yorkies and never had a problem with them but my wife and daughter have not had pets before and Poppy (the dogs name) has not taken to them much at all. My wife doesn't have a problem with her but Poppy has snapped at my daughter a couple of times and it is making her nervous of the dog. My daughter is nearly 5 and so much wants to love Poppy. She takes her for walks and tries to play with her but Poppy shows no interest in playing, She follows me everywhere and pines when I leave the room. She sits with me and sleeps with me and my wife but I would like her to sleep in her own bed or with my daughter. If anyone has any suggestions as to how to deal with this I would be most grateful. Thanks Harry |
It sounds like this dog has never had child interaction and that can be very scary for a small dog. A 5 year old is louder than an older child and more rambunctious than an adult and Im sure that scares the bejezuz out of poppy. I would definetly not leave the two alone together for a long time. I would suggest that your daughter gives poppy her treats or favorite toys...dont let anyone else do this for a long time..that way poppy will think of your daughter as the rewarder and might warm up to her quicker..good luck with the adjustment!! Dawn |
I would think that making your daughter give the dog treats ect would help, but at first, She will have to throw treats to her from a small distance, then gradually work this up, as if your daughter goes close to the dog, poppy will start to feel frightened, and probably snap again. I would also get your daughter to not pay much attention to the dog, so that the dog will soon realise that she gets the treats from your daughter, and will want to come and play with her. |
Thanks for the suggestions, I will give them a try and see how we go. I'll keep you posted, but I imagine it may take a while. Thanks again Harry |
i would also say it sounds like shes too attached to you as she cries when you leave the room and doesn't need the rest of your family so she snaps at them. i know its hard but it may be a good idea to not let her sit on your lap, don't cuddle her, don't let her sleep with you, make sure you first greet your family when you come in then the dog. as she wont be getting the attention from you she will then seek out another family member to get it. when shes being cuddled and fed by your daughter she will soon love her to bits and your wife and then you can start to also show her attention too and you will have a happier dog if she feels safe and loved by you all and not so dependent on just you. good luck i know its hard to push them away but its whats best for her and your family.:aimeeyork |
It also sounds like Poppy was owned by a man and maybe more suited to men. My Max is a mans dog and my girls are more my dogs. |
Ooh, tricky situation- My tips... I would recommend getting your daughter to feed Poppy. I had three dogs growing up and because i was the one 'providing' their food- the pecking order was established. With me appearing to control when/ where/ what they ate, they respected me. Also if Poppy recieves her treats/toys/kisses from your wife/daughter she will associate them with nice things! Also, the person Poppy is closest to should ignore her, so to recieve affection she must go to people she is less sure of. And try to make sure your wife and daughter don't transmit their nerves or fear to Poppy. Every time I am scared of an animal, I must remind myself not to send my fear down the lead. She will settle eventually especially with lots of love! Good Luck, From Lizzi & Pippi :animal36 |
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