| lynzy420 | 03-31-2012 04:52 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1
(Post 3867832)
Thank you for stepping into what appears to have taken on a complete blood bath and feeding frenzy against me. I appreciate your points, well made-point by point, as they are, of course, true, but a select few of these people on this site attack, condem, judge, and convict people that have done absolutely NOTHING wrong. Then, to crucify me and my breeding program, and even my site because I sign my name with my RN.....OMG.....I had joined this site years ago, and all the petty bickering and unfounded attacks I witnessed, conducted by members who seem to "travel in packs" and relentlessly attack and try to destroy other members, so appalled me, I chose not to associate with this venue. When we were in high school, some of the "mean girls" had spiral notebooks, called appropriately, "B--ch Books", where they all got together and tore into individuals they detested for WHATEVER reason they could dream up. This is exactly what this forum reminds me of.....these people do not know me, they do not know what kind of nurse I am, they do not know my reputation, they have never bought a puppy of mine, they have never done any business with me, or they would realize they could NEVER justify their attacks against me. They have accused me of everything from overstepping my place as an RN (I have always been a patient advocate and have routinely intervened on my patient's behalf) to practicing vet medicine, to deliberately using my RN as a shameless sales ploy on my website. This is really grabbing at straws in order to tear someone apart, all based on nothing but their conjecture. I hope all the new people out there that are reading these posts, can see this visciousness being spewed by what closely resembles a pack of ravenous wolves, going frantically after blood. They gang up, pile on, and begin to rip and tear apart. Such a shame, because there really are sincere, caring, honest people out here that are educated and knowledgable in a number of different areas, that can offer so much valuable information to people seeking answers and help, with not only their pets, but their medical issues with loved ones too. And all such knowledge and information, is shared NOT with the intent to sell dogs, or blackball vets, or out practice vets, or challenge doctors, or impress anyone by boasting, but simply to answer questions and offer help and solutions. What a shame to attack and try to discredit members just because you dont agree with what they have said. Again, thank you for explaning points that I could never have defended on my own, as these people have become hell bent on criticizing ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING and EVERYTHING I say. | This is alarming to me, as I said in another post on another thread somewhere there are a few schools of thought in this forum, of course there are those who will be on the same threads, we all belong here. We all have differences in our opinions and experiences and knowledge, there is nothing wrong in stating it.
What is alarming to me is there does seem to be a group who doesn't like it when they are questioned or when someone differs in their opinion.
Suddenly the bash word and gang word etc. , comes in to play...where in the world does this come from?
I know none of you in real life (i don't think) but my opinion won't change, my priority is the pups and I will forever advocate for them and if you don't like the school of thought I have, well thats just not something I can worry about...I will defend my statements, I will admit when I am wrong, I will share my knowledge and I will state my opinion. I will also tell you when I think your wrong, especially when I have said experience, or when its blatant. Everyone has a right to their own school of thought.
I stand by my statement, I think it is unethical that you use RN on your breeding program site, its could be misleading to some. I also don't like that you have a layaway plan for pups, am I wrong for feeling this way? I also don't like that you have a price plan, what would I get for my offer of $300 or my offer of $3000, quite frankly your the type of breeder I want to expose, am I wrong for feeling this way? Its my opinion, and I do believe I have a right to it.
I am offended by your statement. In fact; I am outraged by it, but its my opinion and my feeling and I will deal with it.
Sadly, this afternoon I received a pm from someone asking me if I was invited to join a gang on here, I'm shocked to think anyone would really do this, I am not upset at said pm'er I am upset that I think she felt this way because she did not like my school of thought....this is not right or perhaps she was her self pm'ed, I didn't know if I was being warned or informed or just an honest concern.
I am not a follower, and as I said to the pm'er, they don't call little old me Big Bertha for nothing.
Apparently I am being judged by "keeping company" with those in my school of thought (I went back and looked over alot of my threads) the funny thing all the same people are in my threads WHY because we have different schools of thought...eiyieyieyie, I don't know if this makes any sense. But I'm putting it out there. |