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peachbongi 08-22-2010 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by magicgenie (Post 3248267)
For the most part people coming here for puppies are highly educated professionals with a long history as pet owners. They often talk very lovingly about a dog they just lost to old age. We establish common ground for a conversation and decide about a puppy based on a feeling of mutual trust. If I felt the need to phone someone's vet I would not even consider letting them have my puppy. I always do ask them to tell me about their past experience with pets, and you'd be surprised how often people will tell about how bad they felt last year when they had to give their Cocker Spaniel to rescue because it was untrainable. No, they don't get my puppy after that.


I have recently had the pleasure of speaking to several people about my little boy. This has been an eye opening experience to say the least. For breeders, I can imagine it is the most stressful part of breeding.

I have to say most the inquiries I've had say they just lost their pet Yorkie. I am starting to get the feeling this is what they think I want to hear, as if it will make me feel compassion and I'll just hand over my pup. I am learning more every day that asking for a vet reference as well as filling out an application is very important.

It is amazing how people can come into your home and paint a beautiful picture of being a wonderful pet owner only to call and find out they have owned 5 dogs in 6 months. People can drive the best car, wear the nicest clothes and have the best professions and still be abusive parents. So how can one judge a future pet owner by a simple conversation with a person and establish mutual trust?

shodanusmc 08-22-2010 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by peachbongi (Post 3248459)
I have recently had the pleasure of speaking to several people about my little boy. This has been an eye opening experience to say the least. For breeders, I can imagine it is the most stressful part of breeding.

I have to say most the inquiries I've had say they just lost their pet Yorkie. I am starting to get the feeling this is what they think I want to hear, as if it will make me feel compassion and I'll just hand over my pup. I am learning more every day that asking for a vet reference as well as filling out an application is very important.

It is amazing how people can come into your home and paint a beautiful picture of being a wonderful pet owner only to call and find out they have owned 5 dogs in 6 months. People can drive the best car, wear the nicest clothes and have the best professions and still be abusive parents. So how can one judge a future pet owner by a simple conversation with a person and establish mutual trust?

A lot of it is gut feeling. Any can try to BS you. Ask for pictures of their old dog....from puppy to old age. Their Vet should also have a pretty detailed record. Ask can you come to their home to check out the living conditions. I know some of the highest lebvel professionals that I would not give a dead gerbil to! Again, I would now only get a pup (regardless of breed) from someone that was super selective. I have often told my wife, I would not join a country Club if they were willing to acccept me immediately! Needless to say, I do not belong to a Country Club.

magicgenie 08-23-2010 03:32 AM

OMG I wouldn't have dreamed----
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by peachbongi (Post 3248459)
I have recently had the pleasure of speaking to several people about my little boy. This has been an eye opening experience to say the least. For breeders, I can imagine it is the most stressful part of breeding.

I have to say most the inquiries I've had say they just lost their pet Yorkie. I am starting to get the feeling this is what they think I want to hear, as if it will make me feel compassion and I'll just hand over my pup. I am learning more every day that asking for a vet reference as well as filling out an application is very important.

It is amazing how people can come into your home and paint a beautiful picture of being a wonderful pet owner only to call and find out they have owned 5 dogs in 6 months. People can drive the best car, wear the nicest clothes and have the best professions and still be abusive parents. So how can one judge a future pet owner by a simple conversation with a person and establish mutual trust?



This is so horrifying. You've done vet checks that turned up people having had 5 dogs in 6 months?!?!? And I supposed it's the highly educated professionals who would most be able to afford that. It must be some mental disease or strange hobby that has them spending so much time going breeder to breeder deceiving them into being sold puppies. I honestly never thought of the possibility of something like that. I suppose this would totally exclude a first time puppy owner too since a vet check won't be possible. I'm a little more cautious of first time owners but have placed puppies with some I particularly liked. How sad.
That said, I can think of a couple of times I made wonderful placements where a vet check would have been just plain cruel in the moment, one following the tragic death of a beloved pet, the other the tragic death of a spouse. These are people who arrived here crying and left talking baby talk to a puppy. I have stayed in touch with them over the years, the pups board with me on occasion, and I can see with my own eyes no expense is spared in caring for these animals. OMG I really need to think about this. If the world is that dangerous I'll have to stop doing this. So sad.

ladyjane 08-23-2010 04:26 AM

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Originally Posted by magicgenie (Post 3248536)
This is so horrifying. You've done vet checks that turned up people having had 5 dogs in 6 months?!?!? And I supposed it's the highly educated professionals who would most be able to afford that. It must be some mental disease or strange hobby that has them spending so much time going breeder to breeder deceiving them into being sold puppies. I honestly never thought of the possibility of something like that. I suppose this would totally exclude a first time puppy owner too since a vet check won't be possible. I'm a little more cautious of first time owners but have placed puppies with some I particularly liked. How sad.
That said, I can think of a couple of times I made wonderful placements where a vet check would have been just plain cruel in the moment, one following the tragic death of a beloved pet, the other the tragic death of a spouse. These are people who arrived here crying and left talking baby talk to a puppy. I have stayed in touch with them over the years, the pups board with me on occasion, and I can see with my own eyes no expense is spared in caring for these animals. OMG I really need to think about this. If the world is that dangerous I'll have to stop doing this. So sad.


Yeah, well I should copy the wonderful application I received last year from just such a person! Her beloved yorkie had to be euthanized due to prostrate cancer at the age of 14. During his life he had other medical issues....even had surgery for cataracts. I called this lady and spoke with her for an hour and she was just wonderful.

I was so excited as she wanted a little male yorkie that was hard to place.

Being the unkind person that I am :rolleyes::rolleyes:, I called the vet for a vet check and the ONLY time they had ever seen this dog was when she brought him in to be euthanized. Now surely I thought, there must be a mistake...or maybe there was another vet?? Maybe she took her yorkie to a new vet because hers was closed and he was just so sick she could not wait? I sent her an email asking if she had another vet. What came next? A loooong email about how sorry she was....she had made a mistake. There was no OTHER vet. This dog had never been seen by ANY vet until the day he was euthanized. She begged me to give her another chance.....oh, her letter was quite the tear jerker. I am sure I have it somewhere in my emails...and should copy it for you. Some people may have felt sorry for her...Oh, I felt bad...sort of...but, I can tell you that her second chance would not be with a pup from my home! To this day I have no idea even how old the pup was...if he had cancer...or what. I would hope he was in bad shape that a vet would just euthanize without having any history. She was one of those people whose application looked so good, I thought I could go against my normal way of doing things...although I would NEVER adopt to a person without a vet check....I wasted an hour talking to her. That could have been saved with a vet check which is really the first thing I normally do.

I really should save some of the nonsense I run across just for naive people like you. Your post is dripping of sarcasm....you know what..you really don't have a clue do you? Yes, there ARE people just like what the other poster remarked about. There are actually people who travel around collecting dogs from various sources to feed to their fighting dogs!!! Have you not heard of that????? Wake up I say and smell the coffee!!

magicgenie 08-23-2010 04:30 AM

no idea, you are right agout that
 
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Originally Posted by ladyjane (Post 3248281)
I must say this does not surprise me. I see many yorkies in rescue that should never have been sold in the first place to the individuals who purchased them.

I can tell you that I have met the nicest people and had conversations with them about the wonderful care they give their pups....only to find out when I do the vet check that they don't even vet their dogs at all. This has happened MANY times and is why I ALWAYS call the vet first. I am thinking you have no idea how many yorkies are ending up in shelters and/or rescues. There is an epidemic right now.

This is New England. The Yorkies we have in rescue here are imported from other states. I have friends in rescue and I think I would know if there was a local problem. Rescue of this breed within this region is extremely rare, so you are correct that I have no idea how many yorkies are ending up in shelters--elsewhere. There is no epidemic of this in New England. My lack of knowledge about this is not due to stupidity but due to the lack of this being an issue here. Ditto the puppy mill situation. We have a few brokers around but no actual mills here.

107barney 08-23-2010 04:38 AM

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Originally Posted by magicgenie (Post 3248536)
This is so horrifying. You've done vet checks that turned up people having had 5 dogs in 6 months?!?!? And I supposed it's the highly educated professionals who would most be able to afford that. It must be some mental disease or strange hobby that has them spending so much time going breeder to breeder deceiving them into being sold puppies. I honestly never thought of the possibility of something like that. I suppose this would totally exclude a first time puppy owner too since a vet check won't be possible. I'm a little more cautious of first time owners but have placed puppies with some I particularly liked. How sad.
That said, I can think of a couple of times I made wonderful placements where a vet check would have been just plain cruel in the moment, one following the tragic death of a beloved pet, the other the tragic death of a spouse. These are people who arrived here crying and left talking baby talk to a puppy. I have stayed in touch with them over the years, the pups board with me on occasion, and I can see with my own eyes no expense is spared in caring for these animals. OMG I really need to think about this. If the world is that dangerous I'll have to stop doing this. So sad.

Tsk Tsk.

Mardelin 08-23-2010 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ladyjane (Post 3248564)
Yeah, well I should copy the wonderful application I received last year from just such a person! Her beloved yorkie had to be euthanized due to prostrate cancer at the age of 14. During his life he had other medical issues....even had surgery for cataracts. I called this lady and spoke with her for an hour and she was just wonderful.

I was so excited as she wanted a little male yorkie that was hard to place.

Being the unkind person that I am :rolleyes::rolleyes:, I called the vet for a vet check and the ONLY time they had ever seen this dog was when she brought him in to be euthanized. Now surely I thought, there must be a mistake...or maybe there was another vet?? Maybe she took her yorkie to a new vet because hers was closed and he was just so sick she could not wait? I sent her an email asking if she had another vet. What came next? A loooong email about how sorry she was....she had made a mistake. There was no OTHER vet. This dog had never been seen by ANY vet until the day he was euthanized. She begged me to give her another chance.....oh, her letter was quite the tear jerker. I am sure I have it somewhere in my emails...and should copy it for you. Some people may have felt sorry for her...Oh, I felt bad...sort of...but, I can tell you that her second chance would not be with a pup from my home! To this day I have no idea even how old the pup was...if he had cancer...or what. I would hope he was in bad shape that a vet would just euthanize without having any history. She was one of those people whose application looked so good, I thought I could go against my normal way of doing things...although I would NEVER adopt to a person without a vet check....I wasted an hour talking to her. That could have been saved with a vet check which is really the first thing I normally do.

I really should save some of the nonsense I run across just for naive people like you. Your post is dripping of sarcasm....you know what..you really don't have a clue do you? Yes, there ARE people just like what the other poster remarked about. There are actually people who travel around collecting dogs from various sources to feed to their fighting dogs!!! Have you not heard of that????? Wake up I say and smell the coffee!!

Rescue pups or pups being placed by a breeder; finding the right home is a difficult process. You go on instincts, but thorough investigation is never skipped. I don't do one without the other. The pups welfare is number # 1. I want a loving, stable, solid home. I don't care if someone has recently lost a beloved pet, or human family member, investigation will always be thorough.

magicgenie 08-23-2010 04:56 AM

I'm genuinely sorry---
 
I'm suspecting some of you are just jerking me around for amusement, and that's OK. Tomorrow you'll be devouring someone else.
There are bad apples everywhere, and of course there's always some chance someone bad will trick me into selling them a puppy. However, I have faith in the class of people I move with and attract for my puppies. To be extra safe I am this morning polling other area breeders and checking with my friends in rescue to make sure I haven't lost touch with reality here by not doing these vet checks. I appreciate Donna's efforts in starting the thead and the reminder to be vigilant.

ladyjane 08-23-2010 05:00 AM

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Originally Posted by magicgenie (Post 3248566)
This is New England. The Yorkies we have in rescue here are imported from other states. I have friends in rescue and I think I would know if there was a local problem. Rescue of this breed within this region is extremely rare, so you are correct that I have no idea how many yorkies are ending up in shelters--elsewhere. There is no epidemic of this in New England. My lack of knowledge about this is not due to stupidity but due to the lack of this being an issue here. Ditto the puppy mill situation. We have a few brokers around but no actual mills here.


This reminds me of a story about something that happened many years ago when my son was in school.

The school had a meeting with parents to discuss the open doors at the school. We were concerned about people coming in during the day and harming the children. This occured after one of the horror scenes somewhere in this country....I forget where now exactly.

Anyway......the school was planning to change certain policies; but, there was still an issue surrounding the doors. Someone asked the question about this and the answer from the principal was about how we lived in a small community and nothing ever happened there...blah blah blah.

It only takes ONE time...ONE evil person. How many times have you heard that line........ things like this never happen HERE. ????

Again, I say wake up and smell the coffee. If you save ONE puppy by doing a vet check that would be enough in my way of thinking. You really believe that everyone in the Northeast is an animal lover? Maybe there are not a LOT of yorkies in shelters in the Northeast, but there ARE yorkies in shelters. ANYWHERE in this country.

ladyjane 08-23-2010 05:04 AM

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Originally Posted by magicgenie (Post 3248601)
I'm suspecting some of you are just jerking me around for amusement, and that's OK. Tomorrow you'll be devouring someone else.
There are bad apples everywhere, and of course there's always some chance someone bad will trick me into selling them a puppy. However, I have faith in the class of people I move with and attract for my puppies. To be extra safe I am this morning polling other area breeders and checking with my friends in rescue to make sure I haven't lost touch with reality here by not doing these vet checks. I appreciate Donna's efforts in starting the thead and the reminder to be vigilant.


Class of people you move with? Exactly what does that mean? Perhaps you think I am just some country bumpkin?
Your remarks smack of superiority. I am quite finished with you.
As for some people jerking you around. I assure you I don't even know WHO you are nor do I care to ever know after the sarcastic remarks you have made here when people were only trying to instill good common sense ideas. People who truly care about the welfare of the pups.

107barney 08-23-2010 05:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by magicgenie (Post 3248601)
I'm suspecting some of you are just jerking me around for amusement, and that's OK. Tomorrow you'll be devouring someone else.
There are bad apples everywhere, and of course there's always some chance someone bad will trick me into selling them a puppy. However, I have faith in the class of people I move with and attract for my puppies. To be extra safe I am this morning polling other area breeders and checking with my friends in rescue to make sure I haven't lost touch with reality here by not doing these vet checks. I appreciate Donna's efforts in starting the thead and the reminder to be vigilant.

It is really sad. I guess I see this thread very differently. This is the second time that you have refused to be informed. The lesson of the day is that you can go with your gut or you can gain objective information about a prospective buyer. As for the class of people you move with and attract for your puppies, I just wont even go there except to say tsk tsk once again.

Mardelin 08-23-2010 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by ladyjane (Post 3248609)
Class of people you move with? Exactly what does that mean? Perhaps you think I am just some country bumpkin?
Your remarks smack of superiority. I am quite finished with you.
As for some people jerking you around. I assure you I don't even know WHO you are nor do I care to ever know after the sarcastic remarks you have made here when people were only trying to instill good common sense ideas. People who truly care about the welfare of the pups.

:thumbup::thumbup::thumbup:

Isn't this thread suppose to be an educational one. Teaching how to find a reputable breeder, as well as assisting breeders in placing their pups, which should be the number one concern.

"Class Of People", is such a superiority mentality, however, actions speak louder than words. But, in most cases, what one says when aggrivated is very telling.

ladyjane 08-23-2010 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Mardelin (Post 3248622)
:thumbup::thumbup::thumbup:

Isn't this thread suppose to be an educational one. Teaching how to find a reputable breeder, as well as assisting breeders in placing their pups, which should be the number one concern.

"Class Of People", is such a superiority mentality, however, actions speak louder than words. But, in most cases, what one says when aggrivated is very telling.

I thought so. I don't make a habit of posting in the breeders sections but this one I felt I had something to offer. Oh well.

peachbongi 08-23-2010 05:38 AM

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Originally Posted by magicgenie (Post 3248536)
This is so horrifying. You've done vet checks that turned up people having had 5 dogs in 6 months?!?!? And I supposed it's the highly educated professionals who would most be able to afford that. It must be some mental disease or strange hobby that has them spending so much time going breeder to breeder deceiving them into being sold puppies. I honestly never thought of the possibility of something like that. I suppose this would totally exclude a first time puppy owner too since a vet check won't be possible. I'm a little more cautious of first time owners but have placed puppies with some I particularly liked. How sad.
That said, I can think of a couple of times I made wonderful placements where a vet check would have been just plain cruel in the moment, one following the tragic death of a beloved pet, the other the tragic death of a spouse. These are people who arrived here crying and left talking baby talk to a puppy. I have stayed in touch with them over the years, the pups board with me on occasion, and I can see with my own eyes no expense is spared in caring for these animals. OMG I really need to think about this. If the world is that dangerous I'll have to stop doing this. So sad.


I could give you plenty of other examples but won't waist anyone's time here. I will however say I may be wet behind the ears but have already seen the tears, (with a rehome), only to have the woman call me to tell me she had made a mistake and realized her family wasn't ready for a pet. At who's expense? Not mine (other than pride) but at the dogs. It's when people are the most emotional that they do not think clearly. Please consider I am just giving you my personal experience in hopes that it may shed some light.

Ringo1 08-23-2010 06:52 AM

I will say that, as a buyer, I was not at ALL offended that the breeder took a few minutes to call my Vet and make sure that my current dog and my prior dog (deceased) had been properly vetted.

I was glad she took the time to do it. It told me something about her too.


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