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Originally Posted by lynzy420  I'm glad OP made a decision the was best for her and her pup. I sincerely hope that she works on her self confidence and seeks a counselor or life coach to deal with the issues that make her so afraid to commit. Surely this mindset won't do her well in "life." She really needs to become independent and confident in who she is....my dad always said, no one will know how special you are until you believe how special you are...it is so true.
As for Marley, he will be fine and I'm sure he will go to a loving home and end up right where he belongs. My only concern is that I heard mention that this may have been a byb? If so, I would have hoped that you would have made the sacrifice and instead of getting a "puppy promise" for the future that you would have given Marley a better chance by going to a rescue or rehomed to a good family that you chose. If you knowingly gave him back to someone that is questionable than I'm sorry but thats just another time that YOU are perpetuating your own inability to put the needs of others before yours.
I wish OP much luck and sincerely hope that she does work on "herself." |
Excellent point & with a Yorkie puppy, they aren't going to languish in rescue for years due to lack of public inteterest. So many people want Yorkies. And reputable rescues do interrogate & check out the owner'- to-be thoroughly. My son is responsible at one or two of his rescue groups for this & the time & thought & psychology plus hard fact checking plus 2 home visits is astounding. Other "rescues" just sell to the person paying the price so those kind wouldn't be any better so it would depend on what rescue she placed little Marley with.