I have mix feeling regarding this matter. One day My Honey and I took Pheobe to the park, and there was one couple and their baby I think the child was like ten month old, well we pass by and the child got so happy with Pheobe, that my Pheobe (she loves kids) went and say hi, the child pick up Pheobe by her two ears and Pheobe scream (of pain), the couple was telling the kid gentle, gentle (did kid didn't know gentle) I almost had a heart attack. Other kids are gentel with her others no, and if a kid is not gentle with Pheobe I tell them to be gentle or I walk away with my dog, and the parents end up giving me dirty looks

so if I ignore the kid that is making a big deal of my dog I get dirty looks too, I honestly don't know anymore what to do

, regarding this matter because I don't know if the kid is going to be gentle or not.