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Originally Posted by blondflava  Potter and JESSY_RN2B:
I know how you feel...I'm 28 myself, but my hubby is a few years older and has 3 kids from his first marriage. I am a new resident here and I have to start basically from scratch here, education and finally, in a few years, the job that I want. I know it won't be easy but this is the choice I made and, honestly, I'm not sure when there could be a good time for me to have kids, it feels if I have any skin-kids, I can forget about bettering my life and geting what I want from life... I don't know when I will be situated with my career - maybe 5 years from now, maybe more. And I'm getting close to my 29th birthday. That's why Pepper is so very important to me and I know I baby him a little too much sometimes, but I know what you girls are feeling. |
I have to start from scratch too but I cannot start yet. I don't even know if I will get to start as I am still waiting. I also like you made my choice and with everything going on, skin kids might never be an option and I am very contented with furkid anyways. The waiting alone is stressful not to mention people that are supposed to be close do not provide support and worse yet add to the stress. It just makes me angry thinking about it because my own family goes out of their way to support both me and my husband but they are no where close. I just need to come to terms with the situation and do the best that I can do improve things but half of my hands is still tied. I really have been exploding these couple of days, can't help it. Can't surpress it any longer. I just hope life will move on for me and I will be able to provide a better life for my furbaby and maybe get him a sister or brother later on. I guess I am also one of those people where if there is a puppy and a baby, I will pick the puppy without blinking twice.