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Originally Posted by Potter  Thank you everyone. I feel better. You guys are just the best. I have forgotten the fact that whatever people do, don't do, say or don't say you will never please everyone. I am so used to trying to please everyone as I am new to the family and it is wearing out on me because no one is trying to understand me and where I come from to the point that I am feeling frustrated and pretty upset. At the same time, I also feel in a lot of ways, I am being mistaken without anyone even asking me questions and talking to me!!!! I do not want a human kid and that does not mean I am a bad person, cold-hearted etc! Its fine they dislike me because from the start they have not liked me and the first image is hard to change. I am a tough girl anyways. I just don't understand why people could be so judgemental (without knowing much) and cruel to someone who does not have a lot of social support here. I keep telling myself I am tough but I feel like crying....argh!!! |
My Dear,
you have a good, loving heart. One's decision to have children or not has nothing to do with their capacity to love, comfort, nurture, mentor or care for others.
Sometimes I think that it's us tough girls who can be hurt the deepest. Of course you feel like crying. It hurts when people are cruel and insensitive. I wish I had pearls of wisdom to give you, to tell you to just ignore them. But I know you can't. You know what they say about "sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me"? It was probably said by a loving, tough girl. Those mean words do hurt, and they stay with you for along time. You don't cry in front of those people but do it when you're alone and sad.
Don't be sad. Just surround yourself with loving people that can celebrate happiness. Learn to forgive those who make you sad. Look forward to a long and happy life. And next time you're feeling down...come here, we're here for you.
Hugs...