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Originally Posted by Amber_lv  Ok sorry this might offend some peope here but i am just so tired of biting my tounge. I know there are some really touchy hot topics here but it has gotten so out of hand and really it has come down to a few YT members here that are just being incredibly rude in their postings on people breeding there dogs. I will say there are a few breeders here who show as well who have been the most wonderful people helping others out with their breeding questions and i want to thank them for not being judgemental and rude you guys have made a big difference here on yt about this topic. As for the rest that continue to be rude and say uncalled for things JUST STOP ALREADY If your not a breeder then you really have no right to be telling others that they shouldn't breed. There are some here who think they know everything yet they have never bred and others who just want to shove their opinions down your throat!   It's one thing to have an opinion and another to force you opinion on someone else relentlessly. We are a community here to learn and support on another not to bash and critize. We have new members here all the time and a lot of them never come back because they were welcomed so rudley when they really need help or advice. No i don't think just anyone should breed but most of the time you will not change their minds about it. Why not try to educate them and help them instead of telling the what an unethical person they are because they want to breed. Sorry show people don't get mad at me for this but not everyone can afford a show dog or pet that gor for thousands of dollars and if no one else bred them no one could have one. I think if you are going to breed do your homework and know as much as you can. But if someone has a question that they need help with i think it's time to put away the hostillity and judgement and try to help eachother out. This goes for all the topics like teacup, breeding and the other heated debates. It really saddens me when i see some of these posts latley. I do want to thank the breeder here that have been so helpful again. Sorry off my soap box |
Excellent Posting! I've seen one thread were a person was asking a question unrelated to whether or not she should breed and got attacked for deciding to breed. I think when someone is asking for help they have already made a decision and the best you can do is put your personal feelings aside and do what they ask.......give them advice on what they asked for! It upsets me how many of these threads wind up with someone telling a grown person what they should or shouldn't do when ultimately it is their decision!