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Originally Posted by aarnold808  If this happened to you what would you do?
He always says to me, "ashley, I love you, there's no one else I want to be with," etc. But then when I call him.. I have to call him 10 or 12 times before he will pick up. When I spent every moment with him, he always picked up the phone, now that I moved back into my mom's house, he's out all the time. But he gets pissed when I leave the house after 7pm.
The "other girl" sent me a picture of the two of them kissing. At first he denied he was in the picture. Then he claimed he didn't know the girl. And then he said the picture was taken a long time ago (when he was in high school) and the girl is just trying to get back with him. Why would an ex keep an old picture? But he assures me that some women can do this?
Would you just end it? I know in a million years I would never do this to him. I just hate dating.. and hate knowing I invested three years of my life into someone to have him hurt me like this. I love him, but I don't think he will ever change or stop cheating. If you were in my position do you think you could forgive him? I know I can't...but he was my best friend, I told him everything. How do you forget that? |
WHOSH! I have been here before!!! I was with a guy for off and 3 years. It was the biggest waste of my time! He treated me like crap, told me what I could do, where I could go, who I could talk to, what I could wear, etc. . . While the whole time he was talking to other girls. Threatened to hurt my mom, MY WHOLE FAMILY HATED HIS GUTS! I never listened to them. I also took care of my grandparents during this point, after my grandpa passed away I moved in with my grandma and this made him SO mad. He actually punched me in the face once, it was at this point that I hauled off and gave him a good one right back in his face, what an ass! I caught him dead in his tracks so many times when I could prove he was a cheater, but he ALWAYS had an excuse, and I ALWAYS just ate it up and forgave him! I was an idiot!
I think I could write things for days and still have more to write about him. Thanks gosh I finally smartened up! It's hard at first, but the next year I started dating a wonderful guy I met in college... and he is amazing! AND... He's the guy that I will be spending the rest of my life with!
Amazing the whole time I thought I knew what I wanted, but it actually wasn't until I just gave up and said "God, I just can't take anymore. I give it all to you, it's all in your hands" that I met the love of my life. He said he was just at that same point in his life where he said the same thing. Wild.
I know this is long, but from the sounds of it, you can do so much better! There are great guys out there!!!