As you said so well in your post: I love him, but I don't think he will ever change or stop cheating.
Loving him will not change HIM..........he has to love you and want to change because HE wants the relationship. I took my first husband back three times after he cheated on me! Was I dumb? No I was deeply in love! But my love did not change his actions or the depth of love for me. So we parted with the deepest hurt and pain in my heart you could imagine! BUT, I met a very nice man who gave me his heart, a gentle and quiet man that I would trust with my life ! Married to him for over 30 years now and he has never said a harsh word to me! The happiest years of my life and still going!So there is and will be someone out there for you that will "appreciate you" and "show it."
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