I'm asking for honest opinions here, so don't be afraid to hurt my feelings, I'm a tough ol' broad anyways
I have three stepsons that I love dearly. One of them lives with us (he'll vbe 20 soon), one lives with his girlfriend, he's almost 20 too, twins, and the youngest one is 17 and supposedly lives with his mother. He's here all the time though, anout 2 weeks of every month. I love having him here for the most part, and I can live with that, though I feel it's wrong we're ordered to keep paying the bimbo since she allowed him to drop out of school (we had NO say in that).
Here's my issue. He came over about 10 days ago and was SICK as can be with the most terrible cough. Hacking up a lung! He said he'd been sick for a long time. Okay, so we take him to the doctor and turns out he has strep throat and brochitis. Poor kiddo
So when him and my hubby get home from the doc and tell me the diagnosis, I asked my husband to please take him home. Come to find out, his mother and brother are sick too and went to the doctor the day after he came over here. So they are already sick and on antibiotics. I wanted him to just go home until he had a few days of meds in him, so we all don't get sick too. My husband BLOWS UP at me and says he doesn't want to hurt his son's feelings
He thinks I'm an uber bitch for wanting him to go home
Anyway, sorry for the novel. My other stepson is now sick, as is my daughter. I am not YET< but I take tons of vitamins and wash my hands like an OCD person
I am LIVID that my husband thought that our health was less important than this kids feelings. And I think truly that he would have understood if we sent him home for a few days. He's 17 forgodsakes, he's not 3
So, am I an uberbitch, or what? Was I totally wrong for asking hubby to please send him home? We fought like crazy this morning over this because now my daughter and son, and other stepson, are all sick and we have to take them to the doctor now too$$$$$$$$$$. Missed school, missed work, and tons of money. *sigh*