toby WAS sleeping in bed with us, he NEVER peed on the bed, he got kicked off because i wanted to associate aour little confinement area with something other that us leaving him alone, so now i put him in there during the night when we are there as well as when we leave..... i was worried about the pee on the bed thing too, (especially since he tended to sleep ACROSS MY NECK..... ) it was a little difficult to breath/swallow so that is another reason he got booted to his area....lol |