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Originally Posted by FlDebra  Isn't that the truth! I wonder how many people have had their day made when Villette PM's? I have not taken her up on the generous avatar offer but I will when I finally get a good pic of all mine. It is just a very nice welcoming gesture and I hope she knows we appreciate her!!! Are you reading V?
I have felt fairly welcome from the beginning. I actually felt this was a very non-cliquish site. Sure some have known each other a long time and have history -- but the ones that have been here the longest also seem to be the ones to reach out to new folks. I think it is normal in any group that the new people think they are not at the hub of things. Try moving to a small town!  We have been here for 16 years and are still the "new folks." But I did find out that even the "new folks" can initiate the first conversation and make great friends. |
yup I'm reading & thank you
(and thanks to the others who posted here in this thread)
I agree with your post - for a big site like this I don't really think it's clickish either - of course there are people who may post back and forth, but in general everyone gets fair play I think.....The best way for a new person to get noticed is to just jump in with both feet. This is now a VERY big site...it's hard keeping up with everyone but the more your name is on the site the better chance people have of getting to know you....
For those who are REALLY new - same applies lol - it used to be where we could welcome every new member but it's close to impossible now... so if you feel a little shy - Start a thread or post some pictures. If you need help - ask !!