I know exactally what your talking about. It's like raising children.
Same thing. I want only the best food, vet, shampoo and training
for Buddy. I am going though tough times now because tonight
I will not allow him to sleep with me any more.
He has been growling at me in MY bed now for about 2wks. I am
so upset because now he has to move to his bed. Forever

at night.
I am feeling so guilty but I keep thinking if my child did something not
allowed I would love him enough to correct the problem, so I guess
it's the samething. I want him to be the best, healthest well trained
baby I can get. That just means we love them so much.
Carol & Buddy