Olivia -- I thought more about this and decided to amend my earlier suggestion to just rise above. She is not just insulting a name choice, she is trying to insult your heritage and that just cannot be tolerated. Not now, not ever. I think it is important that you and your husband approach her as a united front and just tell her that neither of you will tolerate that sort of behavior. You want it to stop now and ensure your son is never subjected to her cruelty. She may react badly, but you both need to stand firm. She either straightens up or she does not get to be a part of your family. |