Hey Hannah! I know I don't personally know you very well on YT yet.. but I've read some of your posts and I really know that you love your pup so much. I too have been frustrated beyond belief with my dogs sometimes as well, and needed a place to vent. It doesn't change the love you have for your pup.
Is bringing the crate into the bedroom when you're not sleeping a possibility? Maybe if he gets some treats in his crate and can rest quitely or play while you're in there but it's not night time.. he'll start to adjust. Just keep at it girl, it WILL all work out and your pup and boyfriend will both be happy.
If you ever want to talk, feel free to pm me and good luck girl! Don't let some of the comments on here getcha down!