My goodness!
I just got home from work and what in the world happened to this thread?! How sad that we treat each other this way. When I read some of these posts, it makes my heart sad. Stop and think about what you post and how it sounds to others before you hit that "submit reply" button.
As Moderator has said, many of us don't know Thors Mama, so withhold judgement until you do. I'm glad so many of you stepped up to defend and encourage her.
Hanna, take the support and dump the crud. And everyone else, if you believe, send up a prayer for Thor and Hanna that things will get easier real soon.