Girl...I posted here on page 3 and really think if he hates it that much then maybe go back to the old way that he spent his nights - even if it means a little up and down time for you both - I didn't want you feeling bashed - that's why I out that goofy smiley dude in my post.
BUT - he really has had alot of change in his life and maybe for now - why not let him sleep in the bed ?? I know my girls sleep awesome with me - they were frisky when puppies - but they do grow out of that & maybe he's just going thru a phase - I bet he'd settle down if he was closer to you & it's way better than him hyperventilating and crying all night....