so sorry about you losing Toby. But if you feel a new one would help fill the void, I say start looking for the one you want. It will never take Tobys place for sure but It can help get your mind off of you loss faster I think because you'll have something else to take care of and give you less time to think. But everyone has to go thru their period of grief whatever way helps them the most.
It might just be the best thing for you. I wish you all the best. |