We just went thru the same thing in Dec due to my MIL passing so quickly....one sister in law in particular.......complained when my DH took a few family pics after her passing....when she)his sister, came in and got all the financially beneficial things......like jewelry, tv's etc......and complained when my MIL wanted to live with her after the car accident......
I am so sorry you are dealing with this Connie.....and I thought we were the only ones to deal with family members doing this.......well, just be careful with the estate...and make sure you remain informed on ALL decisions.....
Unfortunately.....people do show their true colors at times like this......and to beat it all they tend to "justify" their actions......