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Originally Posted by ingallsra It's amazing how well you think you know someone until one day......
My advise is to take the puppy if the husband offers it, and back away from your friend for a while. What she did, not to mention the condition she's leaving the dog in, is bordering on abuse. She is in the wrong--not you. If she can't take some constructive criticism from someone she's known for so long, then maybe she's not such a great friend after all. This might sound harsh, but in the same situation, I would be more concerned about the puppy than the friendship. She is responsible for her behavior and actions--you don't have to make excuses for her. Your reaction was justified. This goes against what some other people are saying, but it's just my opinion.
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You took the words right out of my mouth!
I know that you have been friends for a very long time, but people change. I am so passionate about animals that I don't know what I would have done if someone that I thought was my friend hit their pet! You controlled yourslef so much better than I would have and I commend you for that.... This is totally just me, but I don't care how long I had known someone, if they were capable of hitting an animal, any animal, I would have to think that this is not someone that I could trust. I don't trust people that hit animals. Period. Friendhips are based on trust. I think what she is doing is abuse... first she didnt take him to the vet and now she hits him? Grrrr!