Oh Marlee, you sound like you feel so guilty. Please don't! You've provided a good home for Xander, that is the most important thing! What you did was very unselfish and loving. He will be so happy with his new family and he can thank you for that! No one should judge the desicion you made, you did what was best for Xander and for your family! You have a right to "mourn" him and miss having him around. I'm glad he had you to help him find his forever family. |