I just wanted to say that i am soooo sorry you are going through all of this. i am praying for your mom and grandma!!!! lots of prayers and hugs for you i know it is sooo hard right now to be strong and you prob feel like everything is a mess, but just trust in God and i promise everything will work out!! i am so sorry to hear about your fiance, what a jerk, and that friend is just horrible....i always try to find the positive in bad situations, so i guess the best thing is that you found out before you married him, and now you have a chance to find someone who deserves you!!! i will be praying for you and your family lots...so sorry this is happening!!!