Update: i dont really care if he sleeps with us at night or not, i just wanted him to get used to the crate in the day time because i dont want him making a mess of the house...... and...... lo and behold, he actually stopped sleeping with us because he PREFERS the crate
, as for pee pad training he goes on teh pad about 80-90% of the time (pee), and about 10% of the time poop..... he coudl be considered an artist because he did one poo on teh rug that blended right in, until the next person that came by stepped in it
He was around a child for the first time yesterday (the child is six, and i laid down the rules: no picking up, no holding, if he walks away DO NOT persist..ect) anyways, i was worried about TOBY getting hurt or scared by the kid....... but it was THE OTHER WAY AROUND, the kid was SCARED OF TOBY
go figure..........