Tammy
I know that right now you are really upset with what Remmie has done and you came here looking for some comfort and understanding. From what I have read everyone is trying to do that without being hard on you. Sometime stuff is hard to hear when your angry and hurt.
Yes the Dog Whisperer is a TV show and I am positive there is more to it in real time then we see in a 20 minute segment. He does do follow up and a whole lot more that we don't see. Some time the simplist solutions don't take ALL DAY and $300 to solve. It is about having a open mind. I do believe his techniques work if you try, what else do you have to lose at this point? Besides rehoming a companion you love???You however have stated you don't have the money for a trainer there for we are trying to give you help that is free. You don't seem to be listening and maybe that because your hand is throbbing and your mad at Remmie.
Sit back and calm down (hell have a drink!
) and regroup.