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Originally Posted by Emmsmom That is all fine and dandy but there comes a time when it is way to much. My grandmother has always been this way. She doesn't care what others think.. Never has. I don't agree that this is setting a good example by any means. Explain to a 9 year old child how missing events in her life is setting a good example. I love my grandmother dearly and I understand her age has a lot to do with it. For this reason I alone I let it go and don't push the issue. |
My Mother too has this personality of not caring what others think, even HER Grandchildren. My kids could not comprehend either why she would choose sitting at home with the dog verses coming to see an event that they were so proud of, and just to see them period. I don't think this is a good example either and it hurt my children alot. To this day they don't have a relationship with her, and its due to her not being concerned about having one with them at the years one should develop. We did invite her to everything! Sent pictures, newspaper clippings ect. I know these fur companions are to be cherished, I have two and they are very important to me, but I know when the time comes for me to have Grandchildren, my Grandchildrens hopes, dreams and needs will come first, even if it means I need to leave my furkids at home or in the care of someone else.I am sorry for what you are going through. Its hurt and disappointment more than anything. We want our parents and grandparents to love and cherish our children, because its a way of loving us too. Sometimes our expectations and needs are crushed by the very ppl we love the most.