[Emmsmom]

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

"Is it just me or is this a little crazy!"

One of the great things about growing older is that you are not crazy when you do something, merely eccentric. When I was younger, I would never have even chosen a Yorkshire Terrier because of their needs. At this point, I now have the time to devote to Joey's grooming, exercise, training, and attention needs. He's a family member and probably the last pet, I will ever have. I don't have to worry about how he will turn out. If he will be a good and productive member of society, if he will find a good mate, if he will be a good parent, if he will find a job he enjoys, and if he'll be happy. There are so many worries when raising a child that sometimes you are looking at the future results more than enjoying today. With Joey it's different. I only think about today, tomorrow doesn't matter; I want to be with him as much as possible.

By the way, I think your mother is setting a fine example for you. There has to be a point in everyone's life that says, I don't care what you think, I'm gonna do what I want!

Nancy

That is all fine and dandy but there comes a time when it is way to much. My grandmother has always been this way. She doesn't care what others think.. Never has. I don't agree that this is setting a good example by any means. Explain to a 9 year old child how missing events in her life is setting a good example. I love my grandmother dearly and I understand her age has a lot to do with it. For this reason I alone I let it go and don't push the issue.