We always send lot of pictures. I would show her the videos but we live about 3 hours away and she doesn't have anything to play them on even if we mailed them. She is 78 sooo I guess this isn't really that shocking.I guess it bothers me more because she was more like my mother than my own mother.
I can certainly understand everything that you all have mentioned and suggested. It makes perfect sense. Just doesn't mean i have to like it.

I certainly don't intend on even trying to get her to change her mind. At her age I just let it go. Thanks for understanding.