The fact that he didn't fess up AFTER you caught him in the lie tells me that whatever he was REALLY doing is FAR WORSE than the lie itself. Most guys I think would tell the truth after getting caught - but your fiance decided it was better to keep going on with the lie - a lie that wasn't even remotely believable. He has done something - and the fact that he wouldnt' look at you or say anything just says that he's guilty of something.
I've been through a LOT of crap with guys... too many stories to count.... so I have very little patience for men and their crap. If I were you, I would now be wondering what else he has lied to me about - what's been going on behind my back and for how long, etc. I don't trust liars. Now that he's lied to you once - wouldn't you be forever questioning him from now on? How do you get the trust back?
I hope that we've all read into your situation wrong for the sake of you and your kids - I hope that you two can work out whatever is going on in your relationship. Do what's best for you and your KIDS - those are your two top priorities.
Good luck and best wishes. |