Sorry the 1st post was before I read about the abusive. You need to step back and get counseling for yourself in a safe environment. Once you have a clear head then you can make the decision whether you want to try again and what you will require of him to make it work. But right now you need to be safe. I've seen both endings where the abuse would probably continue and therefore my friend had to leave permenantly and I seen where my sisters husband did it once. He was kicked out the locks were changed he was under stress and used the wrong method to release it. There's no excuse for what he did but he did what he needed to make sure it wouldn't happen agian and there sstill together. Either way you decide be safe and I'll keep you in my prayers |