I'm sorry to hear about your situation but I agree with the counseling. We work really hard in school to learn and get good jobs. We work really hard at work to learn, do better for raises and promotions. Sometimes I don't think everyone puts the same effort into their marriage. Not to say that either of you are not trying but having an outside party me help you both get to the route of the problem and fix things. And if after you've done all you can to fight for your marriage and its still not working you know what you have to do. For now think of the things tat made you fall in love with him. Talk to him not at him. listen to what he has to say with an open mind. Good Luck |