I ALWAYS recommend counceling. Some people think it's a waste because they want your money....I think that is bull. A good marriage councelor will help get out things you would have trouble admitting to anyone else...they are trained to be able to do this. If you still love him...then try it, if he won't go, then go alone. The key to any kind of counceling is to be 100% honest. Say things as they really are and not how you "think" they are.
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