Okay, I am officially really over-thinking this, ha! I keep looking and looking at those pics of Stedman, trying to figure out what I'm doing different!
And I think it's the hair around (and behind) the ears that is so much longer on Kiki. I cut my own hair too, and I'm very familiar with the "snip off whatever looks like it doesn't belong" approach

, so I guess I'll keep trying that with the Kikster too. And if I cut too much, there's always that old truth...hair grows!
(thanks for your kind words on her! She DOES look like such a sweetie-doll in those pics! of course, that's only half the story!

She's a real tomboy, always wrestling and chasing and messing her hair all up. THose pics are quite deceptively INNOCENT looking!

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