My ex-husband was controlling as well. The key word is "Ex."
He used to tell me not to eat too much so I won't gain weight. Let's just say I was size 0 that time. He used to compare me with sister-in-law who was skinny and pretty and younger.
So I left him and I am much happier.
I am still single after 8 years and I probably won't find another person to marry. It makes me sad but I rather be alone than being with someone who tells me to lose weight or not pretty enough or so on.
I may not be a size 0 any more but I am a good person inside and if no man find me as a suitable wife, then it is their loss and not mine!!!
I'm sure your husband has a good side and horrible side.
You and only you can make a decision that your marriage is worth keeping or kick him to the curb.
Listen to your heart and mind; don't rush into conclusion because YT tells you that your husband is horrible. (I do think he is...)
It is your life and your marriage; you need make whatever the decision that will make YOU happy.
Good luck!!!! |