She has to be very careful!
If what she is saying about him is the honest truth, he could really hurt her if she "talks back" to him or stands up for herself.
These type of men view their women as property and they are not allowed to have anything of their own.
By her husband,(the jerk) wanting her to pay him back for the puppies or telling her to lose weight, he is trying to control her and keep her self esteem down. So she feels she has no other choice but to stay with him, because 1) nobody else wants her or 2)she could never make it on her own without him telling her what to do. If she does work outside of the home, this so called man will take her money and dole it out to her as he sees fit. Very Controlling, Very insecure man! |