Completely aside from the dog issue, for a moment....are you sure your adult son moving in with you is the best thing for YOU, and for the other adults that live there?? It doesn't sound like there is a very good dynamic between you, and I could see it escalating and getting ugly.
You've received other good advice here, but to be honest, it sounds like you have a difficult problem on your hands. And whether or not it all BEGAN with your son, it does sound like at this point it's up to HIM (his attitude and approach) whether or not things can improve. If he doesn't really WANT things to be better with Quincy, they won't be, because above all, animals can sense our emotions. |