OK.. every year we have a thing at jeffs parents for christmas eve...well it was set for sunday ant noon about 3 WEEKS ago and had the menu as chilli.....than exverybody could bring whatever else they wanted..>WELL today i got an email from my SIL saying thats its on SAT. the 23rd at noon instead and shes making tater soup, jeffs mom is making chili and that we need to bring....bread, chips, 3-4 different kinds of lunch meat and pop for 16 PPL...now..i dont mind bringing stuff but doesnt that seem alittle unfair? Is is just me? maybe im ticked about the family thing but too me were bringing way more than our fair share.......