[Bizzymammabee]

Hon,

Listen take a deep breath. You are totally justified in how you feel. He is very lucky that you have extended himself as much as you have. Do as much as you feel comfortable to do. You are not obligated to do a thing. As you said he wasn't there. I know that god would like us to look the other way and be the better person but honestly sometimes the hurt is just too deep to actually do that.

Why isn't that sister that is all about him and wanting him buried in style not taking care of things.

Honestly because someone is our biological parent doesn't mean that they are entitled to anything especially when they had nothing to do with you for so many years.

He is very blessed that you have done as much as you have. So be proud that you have done as much as you have and don't beat yourself up anymore.

Good luck in the coming days as you have to deal with whatever comes your way.